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Thread: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

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    Default Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    There is this chick at work that had a huge crush on me bout a year ago and she told nearly everyone there. She even had her boss come to me and tell me she wanted me. I just brushed her off and now I regret it. Anyway I could turn it around? She completely ignores me now.

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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    Rare case where a guy turns down a girl, lol.

    Maybe explain to her that you were seeing someone else (and now you're single and free), or say that you weren't interested in a relationship back then.

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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    Quote Originally Posted by ED11356 View Post
    Rare case where a guy turns down a girl, lol.

    Maybe explain to her that you were seeing someone else (and now you're single and free), or say that you weren't interested in a relationship back then.
    She want even look my way. But she is only a 4 or 5 at best.

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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    Why were you not interested back then and why all of the sudden
    interest now ? Are you just upset that she got over liking you ? You
    have not even mentioned why you like her now so maybe you
    should just leave her alone as there are a ton of other women out
    there. You mention her being a 4 or 5 as if she is not even
    attractive to you.

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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    Seems like you are more into yourself than her.
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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    Is your ego telling you to go for her? Or could it be that someone else is getting interested in her? Because like you said she is a 4 or 5 at best. Yeah so why the change of heart?

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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    Im not having any luck with any other chicks. I have been a year without so much as a kiss. I never really turned her down I just didnt do anything and she never approached me. She just sent other people to tell me she wanted me. I didnt really know how to respond to that? She dont have a boyfriend so Im not jealous.

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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    Open the door tomorrow morning, forget what's happened up until now with women. Sounds like you need to get out there and start making some new 'friends'. If the only reason you are interested in her now is that she feels like your last resort then that is not fair on either of you.

    Instead, make sure when you leave tomorrow, and each time you leave the house, that you are looking as sharp as you can. Look in the mirror and realise how good you look, especially if you make more effort tomorrow than perhaps you would otherwise have made.

    Then make it your goal to chat to at least 2 random women tomorrow that you see about and would not have otherwise chatted to. If you can achieve that, and then gradually ramp it up, your confidence will increase, you will get to the point where you don't mind that this wan
    Is over you as you will have chances with other women.

    It's too easy to hook emotion on to a woman, who we would otherwise be cold on, of there are no other options. But don't, it's never going to lead to as many good things as you might like.

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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    I'll give you some words of advice "she isn't the only girl out there" dont hurt her or yourself by getting into something your pride is forcing you into.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Chick at work came on to me but I turned her down and now regret it.

    Its not pride I just regret not grabbing the oppurtunity when I had it.


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