Re: number close to first date question
I got a girl lined up for a date this week. It is not really a date but whatever. Anyways, I met her 3 weeks ago and only speak to her once a week. Why? Based on my experimentation the more you put in the more you screw yourself. It doesnt make sense but I dont make the rules. Now I would suggest not talking to her unless she breaks silence. But even if she breaks silence do not talk a lot I got screwed one time doing that. Anyways, when you meet her you will have so much ammo to talk about your date will not be boring. Also remember to not only focus your attention on her during the date. Talk to people around you: Waiting in line - talk to someone and be social; at the table - talk to you server; you taking a walk - talk to someone who is passing by who looks like a good sport; etc. This guy randomly pulled me over and asked me on saturday 'hey I was having a debate with my date what do you think'. That was cool because we all had fun and she was Laughing her a55 off.
Anyways, dont worry. If she flakes then you can come back and report here.