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    benjam60-2012 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Difference Between Neg and Meaness?

    Hi I think I don't get the difference between a neg and being a jerk...
    - I asked a girl on facebook, who i ddnt really know, to tell me three cool things about herself, she said three things I already knew so I replied:

    "haha tht taught me absolutely nothing about u lmao, im trying 2 learn about u and i already knew all those things
    lol
    do you play sports?"

    - I think this was kinda mean and that is why she stopped replying after a few more messages :/

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    Default Re: Difference Between Neg and Meaness?

    Using haha, lmao and lol all in the same sentence is complete
    overkill and kinda obnoxious. Also considering what was said
    there was not much that was so lmao about it which made your
    response seem like you were trying too hard for something.
    If you try to get too cocky and bust their chops every time
    someone responds then they will probably quit responding.

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    Default Re: Difference Between Neg and Meaness?

    Quote Originally Posted by benjam60-2012 View Post
    Hi I think I don't get the difference between a neg and being a jerk...
    - I asked a girl on facebook, who i ddnt really know, to tell me three cool things about herself, she said three things I already knew so I replied:

    "haha tht taught me absolutely nothing about u lmao, im trying 2 learn about u and i already knew all those things
    lol
    do you play sports?"

    - I think this was kinda mean and that is why she stopped replying after a few more messages :/
    That's not a neg. Most guys really mess up negs, because it's pretty easy to go too far. Really when you neg her the right reaction should be her laughing (or something playful like hitting you in the arm).

    Delivery is HUGELY important in negs; so they can be kind of hard to pull off via text convos, where sarcasm is extremely hard to convey.

    I'm very sarcastic/facetious so I kind of toss negs out without actually realizing I'm doing it. Think of it as playful teasing essentially.

    Like today me and one of the other GAs went to Quiznos to get lunch for the teachers. She dropped money on the floor in the office. She dropped money again in Quiznos where I dropped "there ya go throwing money on the floor again".

    It's a tease, and I was only alluding to the fact that she was clumsy. It was being able to say something without actually saying it.

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    Default Re: Difference Between Neg and Meaness?

    Medics response is a tease, not a neg

    And yes your neg did cross the line to mean

    A neg is supposed to sound like a compliment, but have the effect of making them insecure

    "Oh I love those shoes I bet they looked great when they were new"

    Or "great nails! Are they real?" (when they obviously arent)

    Or - hey that's such a cool dress I saw another girl out in it yesterday, I love it

    You're sneaking In the insult under the radar

    Negs are powerful because you're pointing out her flaws, something other guys don't do so she will become insecure and seek validation. But you do it really nicely
    Be careful with negs. In reality they are generally unnecessary

    Tease girls all the time, but keep it lighthearted. Teasing is always beneficial, it shows you are confident and not intimidated by her,just don't mistake these for negs because they are different
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    benjam60-2012 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Difference Between Neg and Meaness?

    So I don't quite understand how to tease a girl? Please give examples.


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