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    I've been working on an Italian HB8 for about a week and I'm taking her out after lecture Thursday night for a simple meal as a birthday treat; nothing fancy. My plan for the night is as follows:

    A little flirting during lecture via note passing (very underrated and surprisingly effective and easy number close in a university setting; also took into account whether or not she's ok with being distracted) and perhaps a little kino given the opportunity just to kinda get past the touching barrier earlier and set mood, for lack of a better word. As for the dinner, a local pizza shop should do since it's not a formal date and I barely know her.

    I feel like I've been getting enough IOI's, so I'm debating on whether or not I should go in for a kiss after the meal. Chances are that I will, but I'm not sure if I should lean in for it or build up to it by saying something along the lines of, "I'm gonna try something here..."

    Any advice is greatly appreciated! (Criticism, too!)

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    Default Re: Going For The Kiss?

    Id flirt in class but leave the kino until you meet. When you greet her touch her in some way. Touch her a few times throughout dinner and observe her response. Is she ok with you touching her? Does she touch you back? What is her body language suggesting? If her body language is good you should be good to go for a kiss. Being her birthday another option you can use is 'So do you want your present?' her 'what is it?' you 'Close your eyes (kiss)'. Or just straight up kiss going for a walk after dinner.

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    Default Re: Going For The Kiss?

    Thanks for the reply!

    As for that night, it went really well. Lots of kino, although her body language seemed a little off. No real opportunity to kiss close. However, I'm sure I was getting a lot of IOI' (eye contact, kept the conversation going, didn't hold a guard, squeezed my hand, etc, but nothing that signaled for a kiss). Made plans for the weekend, but the hurricane managed to screw that up.

    Anyway, I think I'm gonna have to drop this one because she has a bf. Found that out on my own today (gotta love facebook). Figured it was odd that she NEVER brought him up or any other guys for that matter, so I guess that made her seem available. Oh well, on to the next one!

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    Don't worry about the boyfriend...just be open and engaging about it...ask her questions about him...get her to reveal what she really feels about him...he might not be perfect and given she went out with you I would assume it's not. Just read up on boyfriend buster moves. Tell her her BF must be the perfect guy and watch her response...tell her 'so you guys will make a great husband and wife' and watch her response. Girls are almost always looking for the perfect husband so you can use all that psychology to your complete advantage. If she had met the perfect 'husband' she would not have held your hand, so deep down I would open that crack up further. Keep chatting to her, ask her out again.

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    Default Re: Going For The Kiss?

    If you kiss her because you think you "should" then it'll be weird. You kiss her because the moment is right - the moment is right because you've built attraction and comfort and have been escalating kino - you've built attraction and comfort and have been escalating kino because yeah, you should kiss her :P

    The "I'm gonna try something..." is meh. It would come off as cute and quirky - which is good if and only if that's what she's into. You'd probably be better off to just triangle gaze her and lightly touch her chin to guide her in for the kiss. Here's some ideas

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    Default Re: Going For The Kiss?

    i've never heard of that "i'm gonna try something..." kclose, seems cheesy to me, there's plenty of k-closes in that thread there, i'm going astray on this for a sec but is mysteries kiss close the only "full proof" (i use the term looseley) one out there?

    given it's her birthday no doubt give her a hug and say HBD when you meet her, it's one of those times where it won't come off as too forward in my opinion, if she doesn't know you that well you'll come across as even more confident (which is good)

    if she makes out with you later on find out about her bf cause to me the question this poses is if she has a bf, why the hell is she with you on her birthday? get what i'm saying

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    Default Re: Going For The Kiss?

    Sometimes you don't need a k-close tech... If the signs are there, (shes looking at you're lips standing close to you, kino is flowing there's a little silence and tension) she is prime for the kiss. In this instance I just lean in and go for it.

    My advice is be proactive about it... don't leave it until right at the end of the date... when I'm walking back with a girl I normally do it before we get to her door. Its more spontaneous.

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    @Hyp
    I think I get what you mean - like are there other kiss gambits that give you better options than just an awkward moment if she resists? Yes. Kinos five kisses can be done in a modified form; if she is hesitant when you take her hand then bring it up near your mouth as if to kiss her hand and say "like so," and continue the routine with each kiss, bringing her near your face, only to pause (building sexual tension) and say "as such" or "like so".
    Also whem you triangle gaze + touch her chin to pull - if she pulls away lile "what are you doing then you could lean back, guesture with the side of your face and say "you've got a little schmutz on your cheek"
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    Default Re: Going For The Kiss?

    yea that's pretty much what i was asking, cause mysteries "would you like to kiss me?" pretty much shuts them down if they say no etc although i don't find it to be romanticly set up in a way, atleast with that one you're sort of not forcing it if you get me, cause i usually just hand under her chin and pull it lightly towards me

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    Default Re: Going For The Kiss?

    Appreciate the feedback!

    I used one of those kiss gambits on another HB8 last week and it worked out. Thing is, it was a little easier because she brought up kissing and she's not sure if she's any good, so I said, "I'd like to find out..." and that was it.

    I'll check out the BF busters and try them out just for fun, but, depending on our next "date," I might just drop it. I'm not really comfortable crossing that line yet.

    There are a few other girls I'm working on anyway, so I'm going to start another thread in the near future for some advice. Thought I'd point out that I have no issues with number closing, opening, etc. My text game is a little shaky, but I've read up on GnG's guide so I'm working on it. Feeling some conversations change a bit.

    BTW, have any of you actually had success with the BF busters?


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