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Thread: Need help with indecisive girl... How do I make her mind up?

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    Question Need help with indecisive girl... How do I make her mind up?

    Hey guys, I've been following the site for the last 6 months since I split from my ex and would firstly like to say thank you for all your help.

    So the situation....

    Basically i returned to work from holiday to find we had taken on some new temporary staff, one of which is the HB 9 raven haired in question. Now this girl is really cute and I noticed her straight away and she was giving me all of the signs she was interested, constantly coming close direct eye contact etc... I had heard that she was asking around at work about so I knew this was game on and then the next morning she added me to Facebook. We got chatting and she mad it immediately clear she was definitely interested and after splitting from her fiancé just over a year ago at the wedding that it was only sex for her from now on. Obvious confidence problems....

    So we chatted quite a lot over the next two weeks and I've gotten to really like this girl. She tells me every day how attracted to me she is and how I'm such a nice lad that makes her laugh all the time and cheer her up. Sometimes texting until 4am, She is also sexting quite a lot and sometimes even whilst we're at work. We have this running joke that we are contracted to each other for sex whenever either if us wants it, even though we haven't met outside of work yet due to her commitments with her children from her ex.

    Last weekend we were supposed to meet up in town as we were both out with friends. She never showed and when I asked her about it the next day she just said she got into too bad a state, we continued to txt all day Sunday and yesterday but I felt she was being a bit distant. To day she sent me a message sayin that a guy she was seeing had got back in contact and wanted to give it another go and didn't want to loose her, she then said that she wanted to cut contact with both of us until she can decide what she wants. It told her i understand and when she is ready il be here.

    She then goes onto say that I am such a nice lad and that how can I be so nice all the time to which I replied that it's just the way I am and that I am really interested in her. We agreed to speak later.

    Now my question is how do I make her choose me...

    I know that if she doesn't choose me then I can go down the root of BF destroyer but don't really want that.....

    What is the next step to pull her closer????

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    Default Re: Need help with indecisive girl... How do I make her mind up?

    I would say freeze out for a week and then push-pull a lot to build up the attraction. If you see her at work for example just say hi with a smile and pretend to text and always seem happy. Prove to her that you don't need her and you have your own life which is filled with many women and that if she's not careful she will become just another statistic to you.
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    Default Re: Need help with indecisive girl... How do I make her mind up?

    Two things i noticed... u failed to follow up on the interest. She was giving IOI''s alot... could be she's a player but if she's sexting you you should call her bluff and try to get together. Trust me, if she was serious, she would find a way to take care of the kids (babysitter etc).

    If u advanced when u were supposed to, u wouldnt need a BF destroyer now.

    If u advanced and she turned u down, u know what type of girl she is.

    2nd thing... she thinks your nice, needs to find herself etc... your done ... its over. U have been friendzoned. Obvious sexual innuendos from her + no action from you = friendzone.

    Hate to be harsh but u will be better off trying to get with other women. BF destroyers only work when there is interest or attraction. You have already been friendzoned so its practically impossible to use them now.

    If u have read the site over 6months, u missed the DOZENS of get your ex back threads. Do some research. Sorry man.
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    Bit of an update for you guys, we spoke earlier and she had decided that we'd just be friends.

    So just to make sure she knew what she was missing out on I decided to wear my best pulling shirt to work.

    1 hour in and she's texting me telling me I look incredibly hot and she wants to meet me somewhere quiet at work to fuck me. I called her bluff and gave her a time and place. She didn't show so I messaged her calling her a chicken to which she replied I ain't no chicken and I've had enough I want you now! She has given me her address and I'm going round there tomorrow morning to seal the deal before work.....


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