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    Default Context for qualifiers?

    I work on campus with a 7,8, and 9. I don't usually see the 7, but I work with the 8 and 9 every week.
    I've just been practicing being flirty and witty around extremely beautiful women. I'm not actually trying to hook up with them, but I think it's great for practice.

    So with the 9 I caught a pretty subtle IoI the other day. The secretary was talking about one of the gay teachers (I'm like the only straight dude at work) giving awesome backrubs. Now they were both in front of me, the secretary was facing me, and the 9 was sitting at the computer with her back to me. I catch her turn her head a little bit (just turned her head enough to look at me from the side) and look at me when backrubs were mentioned.

    So anyway later that day we were outside smoking and she let me qualify her. The 8 also let me qualify her too.

    Now most of the stuff I have done with them is attraction, and only friendly/accidental kino.

    So are these real qualifiers, or are they simply having conversation with a coworker?

    My usual frame for work is:
    I'm working on alpha body language (shoulders back, chin up, taking up a lot of space/leaning back etc), talking from my chest.

    I haven't outright disqualified myself to them, BUT I made a comment about "only dating women within a couple years of myself" (and they're both 7ish years younger then me).

    I kind of do my own thing. Since I'm actually not really interested, I'm not acting interested either.

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    Default Re: Context for qualifiers?

    You don't really explain "let me qualify her", how?

    A qualifier is trying to get her to appeal to certain qualities you want
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post61758

    A disqualifier is telling her it's not going to happen
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ier-guide.html

    And it sounds like you know kino, but use it as practice anyway, here's another post for good measure
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post63332
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    medic2038 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Context for qualifiers?

    Yeah I was qualifying her asking about qualities that I like.
    Nothing hard, I didn't say "what do you have going for you besides looks" or anything like that.

    Essentially stuff like "if you could go anywhere, where would it be".


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