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Thread: What would make a female avoid you?

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    Default What would make a female avoid you?

    So I was talking to this girl used an opinion approach who do you think lies more men or women? She responded with I don't know? I left and saw her later that day in Salt Lake with my friends she started chatting with me there then I found out I had here in my class that Monday we talked here and there one day she started touching me and flirting with me so I flirted back. Just last week she said she was getting fat so I offered to show her a workout we agreed for some stupid reason I forgot to set the date so she set one (I was kinda busting on her because she was eating like a pig and I said "that's fork that's not lady like." , So I got her a fork. Should made her get her own fork) so she flaked when I asked her she said she forgot and the I talk to her and she acted like she didn't know again. My friend told me she could speak English so I asked her if she could speak English fluently she responded with does it look like I can speak English fluently. I responded her friend told me she couldn't and she made some bull up. I left I didn't like the way she spoke to me and I stopped talking to her now every time I see her it's like she's running away from me or avoiding me.

    I had a situation like this happen in HS which was the reason I kind of gave up approaching and working on game because I was traumatized by it and it happened again at college where I would talk to a girl then she started acting funny and avoid me.

    I want to know what causes women to act like this so I won't make the same mistake again or is it that immature HS B.S.

    I know I'm being a nice guy so what changes can I make? Do I need correct body language, voicetone, tonality, was it something I said or did.

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    Default Re: What would make a female avoid you?

    first of all you didn't take enough initiative,you have to be the one to set dates up, you showed her that you were beta and she decided you aren't worth her time, simply stated you lost her attraction when you didn't take the initiative to set up your own date, then to make things worse you froze her out, wich probably gave her the idea that you just wanted in her pants sorry to hear that this happened to you man, you could have avoided it by setting the date up and following through with it

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    Default Re: What would make a female avoid you?

    build comfort but not too much. With women you have to be gentle what will be okay for a guy may not for a female. Be playful but in a soft\nice way. Be charming and gentleman like. Watch movies like Hitch etc for examples.
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    Default Re: What would make a female avoid you?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    first of all you didn't take enough initiative,you have to be the one to set dates up, you showed her that you were beta and she decided you aren't worth her time, simply stated you lost her attraction when you didn't take the initiative to set up your own date, then to make things worse you froze her out, wich probably gave her the idea that you just wanted in her pants sorry to hear that this happened to you man, you could have avoided it by setting the date up and following through with it

    It's alright man and thank you. It's just making me stronger. I should've set the date up and that's where I fucked up this is really only my first try. I used to not try it at all, I'm really just used to seeing the girl I like going offwith some dude.

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    build comfort but not too much. With women you have to be gentle what will be okay for a guy may not for a female. Be playful but in a soft\nice way. Be charming and gentleman like. Watch movies like Hitch etc for examples.
    Thank you man for clairifying for me and experinece has taught me someting valuable. XD

    I don't know what I was smoking. When I was talking to her, ever since I've been here I feel like something is happening to me. I don't like I feel less confident I need to figure out a way to build my confidence.

    I would campaign off campus (Since I don't like people up in my business and I don't like seeing the girl I ffailed with but I'm in Utah Mormon headquarters. :/

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    Default Re: What would make a female avoid you?

    just remember that the key to a successful date is planning you need to be able to set everything up so that both of you enjoy the date and have a good time. the more you know about her preferances for music,food,ect.... the better off you will be

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    Default Re: What would make a female avoid you?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    just remember that the key to a successful date is planning you need to be able to set everything up so that both of you enjoy the date and have a good time. the more you know about her preferances for music,food,ect.... the better off you will be
    To be honest what messed me up I was thinking about her as friend not really as a girlfriend because I like this Asian girl who goes here but never approached her.

    Now I know you have to be like this 100% of the time and it really opened my eyes and helped me learn what I was doing wrong so I'm thankful for this situation. XD Thank you guys I'l post more info if something else ever comes up.

    I will set up everything properly I will not depend on the woman and I will not say anymore beta male b.s.


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