So I was talking to this girl used an opinion approach who do you think lies more men or women? She responded with I don't know? I left and saw her later that day in Salt Lake with my friends she started chatting with me there then I found out I had here in my class that Monday we talked here and there one day she started touching me and flirting with me so I flirted back. Just last week she said she was getting fat so I offered to show her a workout we agreed for some stupid reason I forgot to set the date so she set one (I was kinda busting on her because she was eating like a pig and I said "that's fork that's not lady like." , So I got her a fork. Should made her get her own fork) so she flaked when I asked her she said she forgot and the I talk to her and she acted like she didn't know again. My friend told me she could speak English so I asked her if she could speak English fluently she responded with does it look like I can speak English fluently. I responded her friend told me she couldn't and she made some bull up. I left I didn't like the way she spoke to me and I stopped talking to her now every time I see her it's like she's running away from me or avoiding me.
I had a situation like this happen in HS which was the reason I kind of gave up approaching and working on game because I was traumatized by it and it happened again at college where I would talk to a girl then she started acting funny and avoid me.
I want to know what causes women to act like this so I won't make the same mistake again or is it that immature HS B.S.
I know I'm being a nice guy so what changes can I make? Do I need correct body language, voicetone, tonality, was it something I said or did.