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Thread: Women Is Testing Me I Don't Know How To Respond

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    Default Women Is Testing Me I Don't Know How To Respond

    I've been sleeping with this new girl for about a month, I just got out of a 5 year relationship (I'm 27) and for the first time in my life
    I'm consciously working on myself and how I deal with women. I'm 100% concerned with learning as much valuable information as possible, I have no
    intentions or goals with this chick other than learning. This new girl has started "testing" me, and I need to figure out how to beat her tests.

    New chick is on her period, she was hanging out next door (she is friends with my neighbor) and she was going to come sleep at my house after hanging out (no sex). I changed my mind and just decided to shut my phone off, I was slightly intoxicated and didn't care. The next morning, I got a text she sent the previous night "wtf" (which made me angry). I ignored it, but last night she came over(she lives with her parents) still on her period, and told me she didn't think she should stay the night because some bs about it being innapropriate (after her coming over regularly over the past month). It didn't bother me, but I know it was some form of test.I didn't know how to respond, so I just pretended not to care but I feel like I should have said or done something to get on up on her.

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    Default Re: Women Is Testing Me I Don't Know How To Respond

    look man, not everything is a test!!!!! put yourself in her shoes, wouldn't you be p!ssed if she asked you to come to her house and then cancled on you? the way to deal with her is to just be honest about it, tell her you were intoxicated and didn't feel like having anyone over

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    Default Re: Women Is Testing Me I Don't Know How To Respond

    It's not about "one-upping" her, or "getting even" with her. That never works. All that's gonna do is create negative competition & animosity.

    What DOES work is being an Alpha male. Not a vindictive guy.

    You want to learn how to be co-complimentary with someone... meaning, you both help bring out the best in each other, rather than trying to outdo each other.

    Also- don't look at her tests as something you need to "beat". Look at them as things you can learn to pass.

    Generally, the best way to do this is to ignore them, OR to acknowledge them & reply with an answer in a confident way. (The more fun, flirty & playful the better.)

    Girls don't test guys unless they're interested.
    So when you respond properly & turn it into something fun that also challenges her a bit, you can build attraction quickly.

    So no... you definitely didn't need to say anything to "get one up on her".

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