I find myself in a unique spot...I'm very good at the Cocky comedy routines/disqualifier/dhv spikes/negs etc....I don't see to have an "off" button for myself and feel as if I overdo it sometimes.
When I meet a girl I'll turn the bantering up a ridiculous amount and when I'm texting I tend to keep the whole vibe going...it's alomst part of my personality to act like this but I feel like it's a crutch.
Either the girl plays into my banter and the conversation literally becomes a ridiculous "push-pull" session between the two of us and then when we meet the same "banter game" continues every time we hang out and I end up not getting anywhere
I guess another way to explain it is that I'm stuck in the "flirting" stage indefinitely and can't get out but I get amazing "flirt" results haha
I've literally become friend-zoned with girls who view me as an amazing flirt but nothing more
I've tried to incorporate more rapport/comfort building but then the girl gets confused when I try to actually "connect" with her because it appears inconsistent and she's wondering why I'm not continuing to bust her balls.
Hope this makes sense