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    Default Opinions on this situation with girl I met at a party

    So just for starters I'm very new to the game. I met a girl at a party and talked with her enough to get a number from her before she left. After a few days i finally initiated some text game to build comfort with her. We talked for a good three weeks and she wanted to get coffee with me. Coffee dates, from what i read where a bad idea but i was up to a challenge. We ended up hanging out in her car and talking/smoking for a solid 2 hours.

    I intended it to be shorter but a friend forgot to call and get me out in case my material was running dry. Fortunately it was a really easy conversation and i was able to pick up hooks left and right. The problem is she said the dreaded "you and my boyfriend would get along".... Had no idea she had a boyfriend and I wasn't sure what to do so i ignored and jumped subjects asap.

    Not only that but she tended to cut me off when talking and i couldn't really keep control of the conversation like i wanted to. She defiantly gave me some big IOI along with a look at her tattoo which is pretty much on her ass cheek. What should my next steps be here in your opinions? The boyfriend comment made me feel like i was on the edge of the friend zone but who has time for that? also tips on keeping control of conversations are much appreciated. Be as brutal as needed, none will be taken offensive.

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    Default Re: Oppinions on this situation

    For the conversation issue, you need to keep control of the frame. Do not let her change topics unless you're ready to. If she cuts you off, just keep talking over her. Show her you are in command and that she is going on your agenda.

    For the boyfriend comment, if you're seeing IOI's then the boyfriend won't matter. You might already be in the friend zone though as it took three weeks to meet up again. Typically anything more than a week and you're just building comfort and rapport with no attraction. This is a major downfall of text game. Anyways, look up the boyfriend destroyer on the site (I don't have the link but it shouldn't be too hard to find). Try running that on her. If she's interested, it typically works like a charm.
    DOOOOONNNN'TTTT CAAAARREEEEE

    You are the prize. She needs to earn it.

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    Lotus53263 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Opinions on this situation with girl I met at a party

    thanks for the tip. honestly the only reason it took so long to meet her again was because I have been really busy. she brought up that she wanted to hang out soon after we began talking. I was honestly more concerned about the boyfriend comment than friend zone. she seems extremely interested. In the mean time I'm just talking to another girl I met incase this does not pan out

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    Default Re: Opinions on this situation with girl I met at a party

    If you're interested in her and you feel she's intersted in you, go ahead with the boyfriend destroyer on her
    DOOOOONNNN'TTTT CAAAARREEEEE

    You are the prize. She needs to earn it.

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    Default Re: Opinions on this situation with girl I met at a party

    What I Do when some one cuts me off mid sentence

    Me: Wait (point at them and look in there eyes) (say it loud but dont shout)

    This shows alpha male and lets her/him know they cant get away with it.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Opinions on this situation with girl I met at a party

    next time I'm with her in defiantly going to control the conversation now that I have some tips. I like the pointing and telling her to wait. it seems like a nice way to be aggressive but not disrespectful


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