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Thread: How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?

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    Default How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?

    How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?
    I go to the university. I'm very proud to say I'm beginning to get okay at PUA. How do I have a lot of girls in my life?

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?

    BenJam I'm a little older and probably the women I deal with as well... I let a woman get to know me through text a lil bit.. When we meet, I can pretty much tell if she likes me, I am a fun person and it helps that most women see me as attractive which is a plus,plus I'm well rounded in every aspect of life...

    So when the question is raised why am I single , I say I'm not really "Looking" for a relationship, I'm just living and enjoying life right now and focusing on me, if it happens so be it but I'm not looking...

    I continue with," I do have a friend that I spend time with" and I let her know yes I'm single do you expect me to go without or you could figure it out dependind on how your conversation goes...

    But for me I'm OVERLY(30+) busy with women and its really hard to make time for all of them...

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    Default Re: How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?

    First, go out! You won't meet anyone without going out to meet girls being on a university girls fall for PUA stuff VERY easily. They are looking for hookups more than actual relationships so they're fine with ONS's and open relationships.

    Second, be straight up with them. If you're going to be hooking up with other girls, tell them. You don't have to tell them when you do, how many you're hooking up with, etc. But do not lie to them and say they're the only one. It will blow up in your face. Also, if they are not ok with you being with other girls, let her walk. Do not be afraid to let them go. More often than not they would rather share than not have you at all.

    Just go out there and start meeting girls. Don't worry about getting and keeping a bunch of girls right now. That will come on its own and takes time. Keep practicing though and you'll get there before you know it.
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    Cool Re: How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?

    For me Honesty has been the best policy,but again the women my age have lives and are loney so that is probably part of the reason too for my success.

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    Default Re: How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?

    You want abundance?

    Don't try to sleep with them. Girls will do anything as long as you don't rush them, and all those other college douchebags are just trying to get in her pants, which she is totally okay with, but not right away if you're getting quality AND quantity. So don't try to get in her pants, because if you wait it out she'll be trying to get in yours. Here's how it works:

    You don't MAKE time for girls. If you have it, cool, but you're going to be cancelling dates because you have other dates. I can't go out with Emma because I'm currently with Sammy. After that I'm with Mallory so I'l get to her in time. Abundance begets abundance. Women want what other women want. That's pre-selection. So don't drop everything to hang out with a girl. Tell her you're already with someone, and if you are hanging out with her and sh*t's getting lame, you tell her you're going to meet up with Sarah because you're bored and Sarah's much more fun. If she throws a fit, who cares?! You have abundance. She's replaceable. But she won't because you're in high demand and stand in a place of power. She'll do anything to keep you around because other girls want you. The whole thing can be an illusion. Whether or not you're sleeping with those other girls, they automatically think you are. It's hard to get the ball rolling, but once you do it's a b*tch to stop, so be careful what you wish for.

    And of course, honesty. Every girl knows I'm an asshole. They're more than okay with it.
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    Thumbs up Re: How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?

    Cody You aint Lying on that, in total agreement with his staement

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    Default Re: How Do You Keep A LOT of Girls in Your Life?

    The thing is some girls will just drop off the radar anyway...you tend to focus on the best looking and ones you have the best convo's with. So you dont have to 'keep' them all. Its trash and treasure. You can also get to a point where you need your own space or it becomes dull recycling the same old conversations. There is power in this ...I have found sometimes I forget Im talking to a new girl and assume she already knows all this stuff about me (that I had just told the previous girl) and I start leap frogging ahead. I can often bypass a lot of chit chat and get to the point more easily. This can also backfire too however because I will get lazy and push along too quickly. It's easy to forget all these details and facts about them and hard to always be super enthusiastic repeating the same lines over and over (developing rapport and attraction). There needs to be a balance...its worthwhile being flooded with women to test your own patience and then you know what you can personally handle. There's a lot of time wasters and women who want things other than your body so I think abundance plays a good role in learning to see through a womens objectives. The more plants in the garden the harder it is to maintain. I tend to go with a couple of big grand shade trees.


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