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Thread: Waiting till Marriage for sex...

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    Default Waiting till Marriage for sex...

    I'm seeing this girl who is religious and wants to wait till marriage before having sex. She's in her twenties and apparently no guy has ever gotten through her defenses. I'm a bit surprised because I met her in a bar and felt her up within a couple hours of meeting her (granted she was kinda drunk)

    Anyway, I love sex and I'm an atheist. There is no way I am waiting till marriage for sex no matter how awesome the chick.

    I'm guessing the default response is "cut your losses and move on"

    However, we really really hit it off and it's someone I could potentially see a relationship from but I don't want to waste my time either.

    Anyone have any personal stories they want to share or run into this problem?

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    Default Re: Waiting till Marriage for sex...

    I don't really wanna go with the default response, but I think I have to.

    If you're just looking to close- it's gonna take a lot more effort than you wanna put in.

    If you're looking for an LTR, I just don't see it working. I've seen (and had) relationships fall apart over much more trivial stuff than sex/religion.

    Tough stuff- I'd love to hear someone who thinks I'm wrong, though.

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    Default Re: Waiting till Marriage for sex...

    Yea, cut your losses, orrr

    See if she'll settle for something inbetween sex and nothing, ya know, fooling around

    May be a compromise. It's not great but it can meet your needs

    You don't want to break her long standing vow just to leave her, so if you like her, don't push for the sex, see what else you can work out
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    Default Re: Waiting till Marriage for sex...

    religious women can do everything up to and including bj , atleast the ones i knew - which if you're fine with that by all means

    on the other hand if you're an atheist, eventually down the track her religious values and views will try to be forced upon you --> i've had 2 do it to me (i don't see why their religion is correct if there are 1000 other religions saying the same thing -my reasoning) which in turn leads them to putting their guard up and can shift things in your relationship

    im curious on other peoples thoughts to because this is an interesting question/topic

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    Default Re: Waiting till Marriage for sex...

    You could get her to agree to a non-exclusive relationship if you like her that much. Explain you like her a lot and would love to be her boyfriend, but don't want to give up sex. Have sex with the other girls while keeping her for the long haul. She might even get jealous enough to give it up after a while.

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    Default Re: Waiting till Marriage for sex...

    Virgil I love the idea, you can be my emotional girlfriend while I have sex with others LOL

    Actually I love MLTR, I rarely commit, just see some difficulty in this situation

    And regarding the religion thing, I'm a buddhist, I can usually find common ground with everyone - the type of universal values stuff and trying to be a better person. Love it. Tho I will say I had one Jehovah's Witness I liked that I couldn't quite hold on to, she was pretty devout
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