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Thread: She is coming around mine to stay the night. Sex is on the books - now what

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    Default She is coming around mine to stay the night. Sex is on the books - now what

    So I've been gaming this girl for some time. We've made out a few times, and she went to take it further but I said - I don't think we should we don't know each other that well. This made her crazy for me.

    She messaged me yesterday asking if she could stay around mine tonight for "a movie and cuddles" we spoke on the phone and then she sent me a very in depth sext describing what she was going to do to me.

    I'm not sexually nervous at all, but any tips from you pros in the best "first position" to have sex in, or any other "first sex date" tips!?

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    Default Re: She is coming around mine to stay the night. Sex is on the books - now

    When in it comes to sex ,, no one can give you a straight answer beacuse it's different every time and with everyone , but in general try to make it about her more than being about you ask her what she likes and what she is into ? and that will make her know that you think about pleasing her which gonna jump with her sexual feelings to the sky . the rest should be just spontaneous , Cheers

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    Default Re: She is coming around mine to stay the night. Sex is on the books - now

    if she's your 1st, congrats in advance (y) don't overthink things and go with the flow and take it slow so she is turned on

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    Default Re: She is coming around mine to stay the night. Sex is on the books - now

    Thanks for all your helpful responses.

    Shes not my first, I am sexually active, but I still like to know what you guys do on your "firs sex date"

    Any things you've done that have really worked?

    Any things you've done that haven't worked?

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    Default Re: She is coming around mine to stay the night. Sex is on the books - now

    Dont act like its a done deal during the date. Keep her guessing. If she feels 100% sure your going to do it, it might not kill her mood totally but it will help to not be clingy or overtly sexual during the 'date' portion. Kiss her if u guys are alone somewhere but do it briefly. Dont give into the temptation to make out multiple times. Her emotions will get her so worked up that she will feel even more awesome during the sex than if u let her make out with u whenever she wanted.

    As for the actual sex, biggest advice is to do like 20 minutes of foreplay...if not more. Just because she likes u doesnt mean u wont get LMR. Kiss her neck, smell her, pull her hair a bit, rubher arms and legs... then stop... go back to kissing. Then advance to more "FRIENDLY" stuff lol

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    Default Re: She is coming around mine to stay the night. Sex is on the books - now

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    D Dont give into the temptation to make out multiple times.
    Thanks for your very sound advice, the 20 minute thing sounds about right to me.

    Why shouldn't we make out several times. IWedone this last time I was with her, and it did become something I became used to very quickly - is that your reasoning?

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    Default Re: She is coming around mine to stay the night. Sex is on the books - now

    By making out i mean not getting too intense too soon. Kiss and stuff but dont get into groping or anything hardcore too early. Even if she wants to do something 'hardcore' in public lol. Just don't seem to eager. Trust me, it will make her feel it more intensely during sex.

    You are an alpha male ... always abide by the law that you can live without sex. You can walk away from it. Not every girl will be so hot for you so intensely, so it helps you train yourself to be in control (as well as helping her as previously stated).
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