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    Default Theory I Heard about Workmates and Sex

    I heard something interesting that i wanted to get opinions on. Not sure if it can be used for pickup but could be useful.

    The theory i read on a forum about movie actors. A poster said 'If the couple doesn't appear to have any chemistry on screen, it means they are secretly lovers off screen.' It's like they are trying to keep it secret so they hold back a little too much in public, almost to the point where it starts looking weird.

    I kinda see this as being true to the workplace in general. I have seen numerous AFC be super flirty to a coworker and u assume they are doing it but trying to stay on the downlow. BUT LATER i heard from the girl (regarding the biggest flirt) that she keeps him at bay because when they did go out once, he tried to escalate in public like a chump.

    I have also gotten 'too close' with coworkers as well as clients but it didnt seem to affect my attitude towards them (but i cant be sure of course ).

    As i look at my workmates... its interesting to apply this theory. For example ... two married workmates used to talk all the time...sharing photos, always whispering, speaking while facing each other literally 4 inches apart.but for the past three weeks or so there are no more visits, no more whispers, no smiles... nothing. Very business like and cordial.

    Could it be that the attraction was consumated? Or that one of their advances were rebuffed?

    When the guy was out a few days, i happen to see her and ask if he is sick. She gets defensive and states that 'he has alot of vacation days' and she is not his keeper etc...

    Interesting. I'm still not sure if its related to pick up yet. Only relation i see (if theory is correct) is that just because a girl at work has a guy hanging around her who she seems to be interested in, he is probably friendzoned and NOT A BF. Also, i'm sure there are exceptions.
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    Default Re: Theory I Heard about Workmates and Sex

    Interesting theory but not my experience

    I've dated several girls at work, and each time it was very flirty until it ended. At the time tho I was in a job which was pretty casual and didn't necessarily frown on that stuff, it was just kinda there

    I worked with a married couple the past few years and they didn't seem any different at work or outside, they would chat, whine, etc. they weren't really flirty regardless, just a basic couple
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    Default Re: Theory I Heard about Workmates and Sex

    Sorry! I forgot to say that the workmates were married to different people lol. Not each other!

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    Default Re: Theory I Heard about Workmates and Sex

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    I heard something interesting that i wanted to get opinions on. Not sure if it can be used for pickup but could be useful.

    I have also gotten 'too close' with coworkers as well as clients but it didnt seem to affect my attitude towards them (but i cant be sure of course ).

    Coworkers and Clients are taboo. In my opinioin they're off limites. Sarging in the work place can lead to bad things coming your way.


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