Here's the situation:
I had serious oneitis on this woman... she and I worked together before my divorce, and we flirted over the years, however it didn't go anywhere as I was married and neither of us pushed for more than just innocent flirting.
My ex-wife had, as they do, beat the crap out of my game, (what game I had before these forums... which still, admittedly, isn't much), so after she left me I had nothing but low self esteem and a few sticks of furniture.
Several months after my divorce, we started dating, and in typical AFC fashion, I took her to expensive dinners, bought her gifts, the works. Well, as you can certainly guess - I got shamed. So now, after some really good advice and teachings on this board, I've started running game, (limited as it is) on her. Now I make her work for my attention... you guys were right on so many levels... and now I've told her that I have some time this afternoon to spend with her, and to put on something tight and come over... and she's coming over in ten minutes... not sure if I'll be able to close - my game is still developing and I'm pretty nervous - but I'm going to go with what I've learned so far and see how far the Mystery/Style Method will take me... any thoughts in the next ten minutes?
I'll post a follow up and let you guys know how it works... any help in the next few would be amazing... thanks!