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    Default need help at introducing sexual tension

    I have a problem and need some advice and direction. I suck at introducing a sexual aspect to conversations with women.

    I have no AA. I am an average looking guy, nothing out of whack, but nothing on the super manly side.

    I can banter, introduce kino, but when it comes to actually flirting with a sexual tension I either crash and burn by going overboard or end up in the friend zone by not enough.

    Please any direction to resources I can read up on or if you want some field reports I can provide. This is getting me down, thanks in advance for any help.

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    Default Re: need help at introducing sexual tension

    Creating sexual tension does not have anything to do with what
    you necessarily say but more to do with the non verbal tension
    you create between the two of you. So in reality you need to work
    more on your vocal tonality, speech pacing, body language, eye
    contact, and physical proximity. Learn to express it without outright
    saying it.

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    Default Re: need help at introducing sexual tension

    Okay, then can you please critique my most recent encounter to let me know how I did. I may just not realize I am doing it right.

    Thursday night at a Halloween party I am dressed as a cowboy with a real rope coiled up on my hip. An HB7.5 grabs onto it and says nice rope while stroking it. I say, "hands off, that's not for use until later" She was not dressed in costume so I negged her for not dressing up.
    She bites at the opener and we start the comfort building with the blah blah blah conversation. The place is crowded and we are right in front of the bar.

    As people are trying to get around her, I put my hand on the back of he upper arm, on her waist, maybe a total of 4 times in 10 minutes. ( too much ? ) At around the 7 minute mark I crack a joke and when she laughs she puts her hand on my chest. That was the only touch I got back from her. for 99% of the time we had direct eye contact.

    After ten minutes she says, " It was fate that we met tonight. but she has to leave. " She says she wants to talk later and asks if she can give me her number. I give her my phone and she puts it in. I then give her a hug and say goodbye. After a few seconds of walking away she finds me and asks me if I can walk her to her car. ( West Hollywood at 10:30 at night is not the best but not the worst place to be ) I am figuring on some kiss close or better so why not. As we are walking out the door, the bouncers for the event say that if I leave I cant get back in. I still planned on another two hours at the party. I also thought to myself I was being easy for her. She seemed to get quickly embarrassed and said that she would get one of the guys out front to walk her to her car. I went back to the party.

    Saturday I texted her:

    Me: "hey there! This is Jason the cowboy. Here is my number, talk to you soon"

    Her: "Howdy stranger..... whats hot on the griddle? On my way to the desert for a wedding. Lets talk tomorrow or Monday.

    Me: ( 6 hours later ) You be careful of those Indians out there. I am one of the lover cowboys, not the fighter type. If you get captured I cant rescue you. Enjoy yourself and well talk later.


    Okay let me know what I did right and wrong.

    Thanks

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    Default Re: need help at introducing sexual tension

    your texting convo died because you didn't get her involved into it enough, try rephrasing it into question format, questions require responses, statements don't. you should have thrown in a question in your first text, for more imfo on good texting check this out
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html
    good luck!

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    Default Re: need help at introducing sexual tension

    good point. Do I question the indian stuff to try and keep up playfullness? Like: What are you going to do if you get captured by indians? or jump to the serious like, " You are getting married? Why were you flirting with me?" ( i assume it is a friend getting married )

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    Default Re: need help at introducing sexual tension

    go with whatever you think will work best, don't relie completely on us to make your every decision either one will work just remember to be playful

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    Cool Re: need help at introducing sexual tension

    Playing is cool but not too much, you want her to take you seriously, so use playfulness in moderation... When given the opportunity you have to take advantage...

    She says what's hot on the griddle... That's your time to shine with something witty in reference to you and her in a indirect way.. How she responds will let you know what level she is on.


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