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    Default Beginner and somehow almost hooked up with a HB9

    The story starts when me a friend get back to my dorm complex and see a party going on. We chat with a few girls outisde, and we get in. It was kind of awkward since everyone else there knew each other, and no one no me or my two friends. Anyways we still opended up some sets, but it seemed like the college preselction bias kicked in, and they rather hook up with people that they know. Then luckilly my wing said something to a set of a HB9 and HB6 and they came back with us to my dorm.

    This is where I first meet HB9. I never thought in my life I would have any type of shot with a girl like this. Huge ass, big tits and a lovely face. She was drunk but all over me. I just flirted with her about her costume, and she did same with me. She came in my dorm with her friend and wanted to smoke. I was shit of luck because we had nothing to smoke. Anyways she starts playing with my zipper and feeding me food. At this point I thought I had it in the bag. Then she leaves saying she wants to check out a party and will come back. She actually did come back and we chilled outside my dorm/apt complex. We talked a little bit and I asked her "3 interesting things about her". (I always do this on awkward silences, it usually works). Anyways I say something like I am a good kisser and I pull her in and tease her, but don't actually kiss her. We talked a little more about stuff then I kissed. It was kinda short but w/e. Anyways I number closed her then she went back to the party. Everything looked good at this point. Then some guy showed up and she basically avoided me and left with him. I texted her something like "Such a tease, plus you somehow got a lighter, solid C+ on that". Kinda lame but I was drunk and was trying to think of something to say that didn't look needy.
    Anyways if you read all that I need some advice.

    1. Should I still text her again? She said she would be interested in going to a bar with me, but she was really drunk so who knows if she meant it or not.
    Why do girls in college seem to be so against hooking up with random guys? They were very interested in the beginning and middle, but once it comes to hooking up and stuff they dip.
    How can I close a girl at college? Usually I will ask them to smoke, but this doesn't work for most people. What are other things I can ask them to do that gets them to my dorm?

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    Default Re: Beginner and somehow almost hooked up with a HB9

    That guy that came and she left with f- closed her. You spent most of your time charming her and building her up and she left with someone else. Once she start playing with your zipper she was DTF. Bottom line.

    Nope do not text her unless you want her to flake on you or block your number \ ignore your text.

    How you close a college girl? Its no different than closing any other girl. Once there is sexual tension, you check out and bring her with you.

    College girls like direct guys or they themselves are direct. Also, they dont like guys who are clingy. College is like a Europe trip. You are there only for the moment do not dwell.


    Anyways good luck bro.
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    Default Re: Beginner and somehow almost hooked up with a HB9

    I think you should text her and see how it plays out. Text her a bit and then try to meet up with her. If that doesn't workout, then whatever. You need to develop abundance mentality and constantly be trying to bag multiple girls at once, and get less hung up about this one. Don't put too much emphasis on her even though she is really hot.

    Good Luck

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    Default Re: Beginner and somehow almost hooked up with a HB9

    I did this, sexy ass little big breasted blonde. Got her to my house, hung out and made out a while, then when I went to escalate, she got buyer's remorse and left. Turns out she was just teasing me. We had a fun night and kick it every now and then. My main thing is when she came over to drink on my birthday, i had two good buddies there that are very alpha and it threw me off my frame. She made motions with kino and what not that she wanted me to kiss her in front of them and claim her, but I didn't and got friend zoned that night. Lesson learned. Now I make my move when I feel like it and on my terms. Perhaps before the smoke was gone you should have just taken her by the hand and led her back to your dorm? I don't think she would have came back just to tease you, or for validation. She already had gotten that from you.

    I don't agree with the post above, do not text her or make contact at all. She may reopen you at some point, but if you text her she will know she has you, and you didn't punish her for leaving with the other guy either. Move on with this one, you showed weakness. My oneitis I had was really rough with this one too, but I got past it.

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    Default Re: Beginner and somehow almost hooked up with a HB9

    "That guy that came and she left with f- closed her. You spent most of your time charming her and building her up and she left with someone else. Once she start playing with your zipper she was DTF. Bottom line.

    Nope do not text her unless you want her to flake on you or block your number \ ignore your text.

    How you close a college girl? Its no different than closing any other girl. Once there is sexual tension, you check out and bring her with you.

    College girls like direct guys or they themselves are direct. Also, they dont like guys who are clingy. College is like a Europe trip. You are there only for the moment do not dwell.


    Anyways good luck bro.



    Thanks! Well her friend and my friend were in the room when it happened so I couldn't really fuck her there. And as far as texting goes... what if I try to friendzone her? I know it sucks but I can always use a hottie to go to the bar with. It makes me look valuable if I'm with her at the bar.And what are good things to say to get her back into my place, that doesn't sound that weird or creepy?

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    Default Re: Beginner and somehow almost hooked up with a HB9

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    I did this, sexy ass little big breasted blonde. Got her to my house, hung out and made out a while, then when I went to escalate, she got buyer's remorse and left. Turns out she was just teasing me. We had a fun night and kick it every now and then. My main thing is when she came over to drink on my birthday, i had two good buddies there that are very alpha and it threw me off my frame. She made motions with kino and what not that she wanted me to kiss her in front of them and claim her, but I didn't and got friend zoned that night. Lesson learned. Now I make my move when I feel like it and on my terms. Perhaps before the smoke was gone you should have just taken her by the hand and led her back to your dorm? I don't think she would have came back just to tease you, or for validation. She already had gotten that from you.

    I don't agree with the post above, do not text her or make contact at all. She may reopen you at some point, but if you text her she will know she has you, and you didn't punish her for leaving with the other guy either. Move on with this one, you showed weakness. My oneitis I had was really rough with this one too, but I got past it.

    I kinda punished her by calling her out for being a tease. If that can be considered something. What would you think if I tried to friend zone her or something and make it clear I don't want to hook up with her?

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    Default Re: Beginner and somehow almost hooked up with a HB9

    Confidence would simplify the predicament you're in. Display disdain for the things you can't seemingly have. When I was a young player the older players would say "I only like who likes me". This commandment of GAME stems from the fact that in order to be a Master Manipulator you must first find YOU. This is about being "Self Actualized" and realizing you can't rely on a woman to make you happy real player sits perched on top of Maslow's heirarchy of need like a falcon. If you have not satisfied your basic needs then how can you hope to manipulate the bell curve which consists mainly of woman at it's apex. You must be on top of the food chain. Think SUPER rather than Average or sub par to play on the level I have played on. Ask yourself what makes a person confident and I will answer like this. it's simple accomplishment and a differentiating principle give you the esteem necessary to have attraction power. POWER comes from Self actualizing and realizing you are different in a positive way. Notice different isn't the same as creepy. I generate enough intrigue by the way I carry myself that attract women at alarming rates.
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    Default Re: Beginner and somehow almost hooked up with a HB9

    It doesn't matter that your friend and her friend were there. If she's playing with your zipper in front of them, it's not much different than just whipping it out. Next time, just go for it. If your bud is any sort of wing he'd leave with his girl and let you two have some privacy

    As for texting, I say go for it. So what if she doesn't reply? She's not going to reply by you not texting her! I wouldn't get my hopes up that she'd text back but there's no harm in trying. Anyways, like Topgun said, college is about being direct and just going for it then letting go. Girls don't like clingy guys. The vast majority aren't looking for relationships, just ONS. Keep that in mind for next time.
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