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Thread: Blackout hookup with an old friend

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    Default Blackout hookup with an old friend

    Sup dudes. Knew this girl since like jr. High, she's a close friend of mine. Not like we talk too often but we go back and I don't wanna fark with her feelings or anything like that. So I had a crush on her for a point, she ljbf'd me outright, I backed off and got over her accepted the friend status. Lately we been texting nothing serious I honestly wasn't much interested. Started getting ioi's, she invites me to a party I figure why not. We end up making out but I don't remember much, I was drinking heavily I almost blacked out all of it. Unfortunate cus it was technically my first kiss hahaha.

    I asked her to hang out a couple days later she didn't reply, didn't wanna leave it hanging so I texted her before going to bed to tell her I had fun with her and wish her a good rest of the weekend. She wished me a good weekend back. Now haven't heard from her or contacted in over a week. I have no experience with this stuff so any advice where to go guys? I at least wanna know where we stand, let her know I still care about her as a friend. I don't wanna date her at this point but I'd be down to keep hanging out and just go with the flow. But the important thing us that we're on good terms whether it's just friends or more.

    I'm thinking she might possibly regret it as a drunken hookup but I don't buy that fully. She was giving mad ioi's prior so idk what she expected. The whole situation is complicated by the fact I was blackout. But ya guys any advice is mad appreciated. Gracias

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    Default Re: Blackout hookup with an old friend

    depending on whatever you did while you were drunk, you probably screwed the posibility of getting her back, usualy its realy awekward for the girl after she realizes what she did, that she may not have done if she was sober. i hear stories all the time from girls who kissed guys while they were drunk, they have no clue why they did it and get buyers remorse, never to see the guy again. you need to talk to her before she disapears from your life completely. be ready for anything she may through at you, this is why i don't like to close drunk girls

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    Honestly dude it's like she closed me. The whole thing required minimal effort on my part. It'd be nice to win her back or whatever but my main concern is that she doesn't disappear completely from my life. I like the girl as a friend, I care about her plus we have lots of mutual friends. I don't want a friendship to end just like that or the awkwardness either.

    Thx for the post man much appreciated.

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    you need to talk to her at the very least, figure out what happened and try not to make things more awekward than they already are :/

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    Default Re: Blackout hookup with an old friend

    I would try and set up something first in a group setting (Hey, some buddies and I are going to see a movie, you should come with. I'll pick you up at 8.) to reestablish the friendship part. She probably thinks you have feelings for her since you have told her in the past that you do. So probably the most important thing is to reestablish that you are just friends (Think of it as you friendzoning her). From there, just transition things to how they were before.

    I've had this happen to me before too. I wasn't blacked out but I hooked up with a friend while we were both pretty drunk. Things were awkard at first but if you just go back to acting how things were before you'll regain the comfort with her.
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    Default Re: Blackout hookup with an old friend

    I texted her to ask her how she's doing. She says "haha busy you?". I reply "I been chillin, lol idk what you're thinking but just know that you'll always be my bud. =] we go back". Idk how she'll take that but that's on her - I told her how I feel so I absolve myself of the whole thing. Thanks dudes.


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