Hi, my name is Eric, and i got dumped a little while ago of my girlfriend. I haven't read so much "the game stuff" and stuff like that before, but i have become very interested in it after the breakup. I have read all of the books in the pandora system package, and have read a lot on this forum and some of the ebooks like the body language book, recommended in the forum.. But I'm a beginner!
So over to my problem, or should i rather say the scenario i would like some help with :-)
I have become very attracted to this very cute colleague of me, we are about the same age (21 me and 19 her) i tease her a lot and we have very many laughs together, we enjoy each others company at work, but it was the same way even when i had a GF.
After the breakup i have realized that i am very very attracted to her and want her badly, she isn't what the society would say a HB 9,5, but she is perfect to me, cute girl with awesome humor and very fun to be with, she is everything i look for in a woman. She is a NDR (the connoisseur) (pandora box system)
After the break up i have spoken a little to her on Facebook, but its always me taking the initiative, and it have almost always been about workstuff.. (we work in a restaurant) she always smiles when she sees me, and we lock eyes when we have eye-contact, and she will occasionaly smile to me from across the room. When we pass each other, she often engage in conversation, and we talk a lot during silent times at work. She have even told me stories from when she was at school and stuff. She always also tells me funny stories from earlier in the day and stuff, and we have a good laugh.
Since the pandora box system say that you should try to have the connoisseur see that you are a good team together i have told her that we are an awesome team at work, and she totally agrees and says that it is very fun to work with me and that we are bosses when we work together.
I really want to ask her out, but my plan is to ask her to hang out one day outside of work, just do something fun like bowling or something, but i am afraid to just be considered a friend. I also have a male colleague who have just become single as well and he is hardcore flirting with her (and almost all other woman's) so i have a little competition there... I am also a little worried that she will not go out with me since i recantly have come out of a long relationship (1,5 year), only 2 weeks ago..
Can you guys help me how i should approach this, help me maybe make a decent plan how to catch this perfect beauty for me, she is just so great and i want her so badly!!
Please help this noobie and brother in need!