Re: only the top women out there
If this chick is as confident and cool as you make her seem, go to her and START ESCALATING your intentions with her.
She put you in the FZ b/c you were NEVER clear about your intentions with her. So by default, she assumes you're NOT a sexual threat to her and now a "friend."
Start being SEXUAL around her, escalate, and evaluate. If she's "weirded" out by your newly found aggressiveness towards her, ESCALATE more until you either "get her" or "lose her."
There's nothing to lose and EVERYTHING to gain by ESCALATING your intentions.
Girls that are confident are USUALLY the best to deal with. Why? They're not all worried and insecure and love HONESTY and OPENMINDEDNESS.
Just a thought...
Be the Man. Get the girl. Master The Masculine.