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    Default need a better understanding on bro code

    So my best friend and I went out to go sarging for some women.
    As we got there we opened a few sets. Now I'm in a situation here cause there was this hb8 that my best friend opened but I could there was no attraction from the start. So I go over there and work my game(my friend just met this girl so I didn't know if he liked or anything). I think this was my mistake because I built attraction with her and didn't wing for my friend(bad move I know). I don't usually do this BUT man there was just something about this girl(haha). Anyway the point here is that my best friend got angry over that(don't blame him). I apologized to him(but I don't understand why he got uptight cause their weren't dating).

    anyway need help understanding if what I did was wrong or if he just over-reacted. I know there's the "bro" code and that should never be broken. I feel bad about this. Please tell me what you guys think

    sorry for the LONG post.....

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    Default Re: need a better understanding on bro code

    This post wasn't long you're good

    Wingman rules-

    Whoever opens the set gets to choose their target, as the wingman you are support only. You cannot run interference, you are there to help and support him, help engage the others there so he can isolate

    You are not allowed to interact with her at that point

    You are allowed to Step away and tell them you'll find them later, then ask your friend for his permission. Or if he has tried and failed completely, like he asks for a number and gets shot down and he gives up, then she is a free target, but as long as he still has a chance or is still working his game, you are not allowed to interfere

    Even light flirting is not allowed, you cannot do anything to out shine him, it's his set, you defer to him and let him lead it, don't take over

    Make sense?

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    Default Re: need a better understanding on bro code

    Make it CLEAR who wants who in the set and pursue. If you haven't established "rules" or "codes" with each of your wings, then I can see why mistakes can be made.

    FUN is the ultimate objective.

    Me and my wings will usually use eye contact and/or different "bits" to communicate who the "target" is. Just have FUN with it.
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    Default Re: need a better understanding on bro code

    When I go out with a wing, we have a clear rule: The girl directly to my right is the target. This doesn't always work out as it's sometimes hard to get the target on your right immediately. However, we quickly move the girls around so that the target is on the right before really getting into things to avoid the wing accidentally building attraction with her.

    Before you go out next I would suggest setting up some sort of system like this with your wing. He had a right to be upset as you stole his target. At the same time though, he shouldn't have let you AMOG him. He needs to be running a tighter frame too. Just set up the rules though so that you don't run into this issue again and you'll be golden.
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    Default Re: need a better understanding on bro code

    Yeah it needs to be set up properly, especially if you are both drinking you don't want to end up arguing with mates over girls lol

    Linking x

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    Default Re: need a better understanding on bro code

    Ok wow you guys are good thanx a lot. You guys are like family to me.
    Glad we can all help each other out. I understand about wingman rules and stuff. I'm gonna consult some rules with him. Hopefully he doesn't take revenge on me and game on my target next time lol.

    Thanx again for the great advice!

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    Default Re: need a better understanding on bro code

    This is actually a pretty common phenomenon - that a guy opens a set and then they turn for the wing. When I was first starting, my first PUA buddy and I would like ALWAYS steal each others set. Like every set he opened I would close, and every set I opened he would close. At first we started getting pissed (more just annoyed tho cuz we were both closing lol) then we talked through the models and started using it to our advantage; if he likes a set I'll open and he'll close, same vice-a-versa.

    Here is how I understand it.

    PUA *opens a set* DHV's
    HB *sees PUA as high-value after he approaches her*
    wing *walks up and engages PUA, ignoring HB
    HB *sees wing as HIGHER value because he is the peer/equal to the PUA ....but he didn't approach her. He ignored her and hasn't given her the validation of approach.

    That's the basics of it, so even if you don't game the girl you still gotta be careful not to intrude on your buddy's set
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