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    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl outside my range message me and I am loosing the game

    Got messaged by a HB8 on POF. I am a plain kind of guy, standard haircut, and my pics are end of the day with the open dress shirt with lose tie and rolled up sleeves.

    This girl has a full sleeve of tats, a few piercings, tight body etc etc.... Not the normal little house on he prairie type that I go for. I am into her looks though. Here is how the conversation is going and I think I am loosing her:

    Her message to me:
    with a bunch of her pics

    Me: Hi Sweetie, I like the ink, looks good. Tell me about yourself.

    Her: What do you want to know

    Me: Well do you have a good job? I am looking for a woman that can support me while i sit around in my boxers all day. Seriously, what is the significance of the tats to you. Got any more?

    Her: I love artwork, and yes I do....

    Where do I go from here? I avoided her awesome looks, some of the photos were the overflowing titie shots that were not on her profile. I said nothing about them. Do I switch to talking about me?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Girl outside my range message me and I am loosing the game

    Yes, you start talking about you. This v has shown interest in her - which is fine at this "opening" stage, but now you need to craft your own identity.


    Quote Originally Posted by stitches12811 View Post
    Me: Hi Sweetie, I like the ink, looks good. Tell me about yourself.

    Her: What do you want to know

    Me: Well do you have a good job? I am looking for a woman that can support me while i sit around in my boxers all day. Seriously, what is the significance of the tats to you. Got any more?

    Her: I love artwork, and yes I do....
    She seems the type who needs to be "WOW'd" before she engages fully in the conversation. Also don't ask about the significance of tatoos until waaaay later (like after you've slept with her for a few weeks) because tats are often more meaningful than conversation-starter-worthy material.

    Maybe since she didn't provide that much info try "...well enough about you, let me tell you about me. I...." the start crafting a solid and diversified identity that she can get interested in. Include where you came from, how it affected you, where you are now, how you got there, where you're going, your hobbies and interests over time, - not all at once mind, but have it all planned then let her know in managable chuncks during the convo. Remember, for most chicks with tatoos, a story isn't about the destination, it's about the journey.... so hook her with your interesting journey.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl outside my range message me and I am loosing the game

    Thanks for the tips, that is great. So I gave some moderate blah blah blah about the journey.

    One other issue I think I have is my banter and humor sometimes suck. Here is how I ended it with her. Too much or????

    "One thing you should know is that I have a rare disease called inverse-ballitus. I have giant balls but I am a pussy. I don’t have any tats, yet…… "

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    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl outside my range message me and I am loosing the game

    I am not sure if this is a shit test or not, only response I got was

    "\uuuummmmmmm what????"


    Help please!?!!?!? Thanks

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    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl outside my range message me and I am loosing the game

    URGENT guys I am crashing in flames. Thanks

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    Default Re: Girl outside my range message me and I am loosing the game

    she didn't get your joke.. just say nevermind and change subject.

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    stitches12811 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl outside my range message me and I am loosing the game

    Quote Originally Posted by Sandrager View Post
    she didn't get your joke.. just say nevermind and change subject.
    I did the change of subject and got the same response of her trying to get me to qualify myself. So here is how I responded.

    Please critique this as I tried to incorporate a few different aspects in one response. She lives in the porn capital of the world, the San Fernando Valley in Los Angeles, and she lives in an area where most girls that look like her are strippers or porn actresses. I haven't confirmed it yet, just a thought. In parentheses are my thoughts on why I did it.

    Me:

    Please understand that I have dated bankers, teachers, exotic dancers, even a nurse. I really enjoy every type of woman in the world. You are easy to look at, but so are a million other women in LA. Tell me something more I should know about you. ( wanted to make her qualify herself to me )

    Examples:

    1. What do you do for work?
    2. How long have you lived in LA?
    3. What kind of music do you like?
    4. Give me some insight to your imagination, say you and I are on a tropical vacation, where are we going and why? ( appeal to emotions )
    5. You seemed shocked at my reference to the male package, or you didn’t get my joke, are sexual discussions shocking to you? ( make her qualify herself sexually )
    6. You said you like artwork, tell me more.


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