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    Default Much younger hottie cheerleader redhead

    Yesterday on the subway, ran into a girl I had seen at the corner store a few times, where she always smiled at me. I struck up a conversation, all went well, got her number, texted her mine.
    So far so good.
    She texts me later in the day saying:
    "It was nice to meet you too, but just wondering how old you are."

    Playful response from me and finished by telling her I'm 32. Followed up with

    Me- " How old are you? And please don't tell me you are under 18 because that'll get me into trouble..."

    Her- "Ohh... I just turned 18 last week"

    I go on to say that she is very likeable, seems mature for her age, and is smoking hot.

    Her-"I'm extremely flattered... you certainly don't look your age. But I think 32 is a tad too mature for me (not rudely at all) and you are very attractive as well... maybe when I'm a bit older, sorry!"

    Me-"Thanks for the compliment... no offense taken... Though I'm not looking for a serious relationship and I'm sure I could teach you a few things I was gald to meet you. Don't apologise for this kind of thing, it happens out of the blue when we aren't even looking for it... blah blah blah... And just wanted to say that u r very very attractive!"

    Her "you too, I will definitely call you if I want to go grab a coffee"

    So I was thinking that I will change my approach and go for a direct approach. Something like:
    Go for coffee, use a few games and tests to "see if the proposal I've thought of could work" and propose the following:
    - Since she's young and has not much "experience" I could help her build confidence in the bedroom, no strings attached, teach her a few tricks and get her to practice with me, with the explicit understanding that she's too young for me to have a serious relationship, and that this would benefit her long term with any future BF, you know, teach her how to please her man, gain control in the bedroom, find out what she likes and what pleases her, and figure out how to ask for it and get it.

    I would certainly love to be her mentor/teacher/experiment laboratory.
    She is definitely attracted to me (and me to her) and I know its a great opportunity... Plus she has 4 hot roommates I would love to offer my mentor services to if the first one works out. Who knows... could turn out to be a weekly group session?!

    I know its a long post, but anyone have suggestions to make sure I don't f-up?

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    Default Re: Much younger hottie cheerleader redhead

    When you're confronted with the "age" factor, the best way to deal with that is, to turn it around & make HER try to qualify herself as not being too young for you; rather than you not being too old for her.

    Things like... "Hmmm 18.... Wow. I don't usually go out with girls under 21, because they tend to be too immature.... although I HAVE been surprised by a couple of them who were more socially advanced & wiser than most people 3 times their age."

    Or

    "I've discovered that most women under 23 have a difficult time in social settings. And since I don't like being embarrassed because of someone else's childish behavior, I'm quite selective about my company when I'm in public."

    These examples don't accuse her of falling into those categories... but it implies that statistically speaking, the chances are pretty high that she's one of those types.... and quite often will cause her to begin qualifying herself as being different than "most girls her age".

    It presents a challenge to her.... and women LOVE challenges.



    This isn't 100% successful, but it WILL bring more success than simply going along with her "age difference" comment.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Much younger hottie cheerleader redhead

    I have a little experience here. I'm 39 and I've been seeing a 21 year old hottie for a couple months. I found out her fears and did away with them.

    The first fear was of long-term commitment. She didn't like the feeling that she might get stuck with me when it came time to move on. I assured her I would never become clingy and try and keep her from doing what she wanted and that I wasn't looking for a long, endless relationship. She was actually relieved by that. And now I'm making good and helping her get ready to move away for college in the spring.

    Her second fear was that she would hurt me. This one seemed a little silly to me: "Oh no, I got taken and used by a beautiful young woman. Woe is me!"
    But it was of genuine concern for her so I did treat this fear seriously and after some assurances we were able to move on.

    Find those obstacles and be honest and open and don't get offended. I can't stress that enough: don't get offended. In July my girl told me "you're too old for me". Now she tells me not to break a hip and then does something naughty.

    As an aside, my relationship with this young hottie has maintained attention from the other young women who are around us. There is a definite difference between the way these women treat me and other men. It's like I'm "in".


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