Yesterday on the subway, ran into a girl I had seen at the corner store a few times, where she always smiled at me. I struck up a conversation, all went well, got her number, texted her mine.
So far so good.
She texts me later in the day saying:
"It was nice to meet you too, but just wondering how old you are."
Playful response from me and finished by telling her I'm 32. Followed up with
Me- " How old are you? And please don't tell me you are under 18 because that'll get me into trouble..."
Her- "Ohh... I just turned 18 last week"
I go on to say that she is very likeable, seems mature for her age, and is smoking hot.
Her-"I'm extremely flattered... you certainly don't look your age. But I think 32 is a tad too mature for me (not rudely at all) and you are very attractive as well... maybe when I'm a bit older, sorry!"
Me-"Thanks for the compliment... no offense taken... Though I'm not looking for a serious relationship and I'm sure I could teach you a few things I was gald to meet you. Don't apologise for this kind of thing, it happens out of the blue when we aren't even looking for it... blah blah blah... And just wanted to say that u r very very attractive!"
Her "you too, I will definitely call you if I want to go grab a coffee"
So I was thinking that I will change my approach and go for a direct approach. Something like:
Go for coffee, use a few games and tests to "see if the proposal I've thought of could work" and propose the following:
- Since she's young and has not much "experience" I could help her build confidence in the bedroom, no strings attached, teach her a few tricks and get her to practice with me, with the explicit understanding that she's too young for me to have a serious relationship, and that this would benefit her long term with any future BF, you know, teach her how to please her man, gain control in the bedroom, find out what she likes and what pleases her, and figure out how to ask for it and get it.
I would certainly love to be her mentor/teacher/experiment laboratory.
She is definitely attracted to me (and me to her) and I know its a great opportunity... Plus she has 4 hot roommates I would love to offer my mentor services to if the first one works out. Who knows... could turn out to be a weekly group session?!
I know its a long post, but anyone have suggestions to make sure I don't f-up?