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    Default Did I act needy? help needed

    As you may know, texting can be a weak spot of mine, so I like to seek others opinions on occasion. I started seeing this new girl, twice now, and i honestly like this girl. She seems to be really into me, texts me alot (almost always initiates), and has even given me signals that she wants to date (told me that out of the blue in bed that she dosnt see anyone else when she starts hanging out with someone (me), and asked if im the same way, etc) verbally told me she likes me alot etc. Ive slept with her both times we hung out, great sex.. lol.

    Today she asked if i wanted to hang out this upcoming friday:

    Me: for sure
    me: will be fun
    Her:
    M: you work tomorrow night right? (Talking about wends)
    H: ya :/
    M: just a thought, but wana go see a movie or something thurs night? And then go out fri.
    h: i cant thurs, i have an exam early fri morning :/
    M: thats cool, no problem. Ill see you friday
    H: yea i love that my professor let us know about the exam 2 days before. :/
    M: ya that would be sucky lol

    Now dosnt seem to bad, right? But im wondering if i came accross as needy asking about the "you work tonight (wends)" and the thursday thing. I just wanted to see if she wanted to hang out another night this week besides just friday. After this little convo i havnt hearr back from her for hours now, which is possibly a little unusual from her normal texting pattern.

    Think i came across as needy, or am i overthinking it? And whay should i do.... text her again tonight once more just checking in, or leave it tonight? We usually always shoot a few text back and forth each night...

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    Default Re: Did I act needy? help needed

    Definitely over thinking it. Could elaborate but no need really. Hang out with her Friday and enjoy it man.

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    Default Re: Did I act needy? help needed

    needy is "Please can you go on a date with me". Thats needy.

    You asked her what her schedule looks like and you end up setting a date. You are still commanding the ship.

    Congrats bro and good luck on your date.
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    Default Re: Did I act needy? help needed

    Ok thanks, i know im overthinking it lol.

    I guess the thing thats just throwing me off is that she hasnt contacted me in like 6 hours, which is unusual for her. Im getting used to her texts every time i open my phone lol.

    I gave in and exchanged a "hows your night" text or two with her. Think "goodnight" texts to end.a convo come across as too much this early on?

    And how often do you guys text a girl in a situation like this, where there is a gap between when youll see them next? All day every day? Every day but sporatically? Leave a day or two in there where you dont text?


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