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    doublevest is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question No contact with LJBF

    A few weeks back I posted a thread about how I got the whole LJBFA speech.
    From my own judgement and from the advice on this forum, I decided to freeze her
    Out, in hopes of getting over my one itis towards her.

    Last Monday I sent a text pretty much saying how I wanted to not talk to her for awhile,
    I even said not to reply to that message.

    Since then she has sent me texts on 3 different occasions. The first text
    Was last Friday, which pretty much said I miss you. On Saturday
    She texted me saying if I was still "mad" at her. Then finally today (. Being
    Tuesday ) she said how she misses me, and how long I am keeping this up
    For.

    I haven't replied to any of these texts. Infanct I delete them once I receive them.
    I still have feelings for her but there is no way I am going to be her friend.

    I acted very AFC the past month and a half with her , my question is should I keep
    No contact ? I know the longer this goes the more anxious she gets. I've made up my
    Mind that I'm not going back to her as a friend.

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    Default Re: No contact with LJBF

    Well, first, good work!

    Ok actually your last text was kinda beta, but got what you wanted

    You've got the frame, and the power now

    So, I would suggest bein forward, but staying alpha. She misses you, good

    So I'd respond tomorrow like

    "I want to chill, but I can't just be friends. Sorry kitten"

    (you can call her pet names now, she's supplicating to you. Just stay alpha and control the frame. Don't fall into a trap of sending her long drawn out messages. If she's a pain, say "it's cool but this isn't gonna work" and leave it there (more or less)

    She's showing interest, so be direct, just don't be needy
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    doublevest is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: No contact with LJBF

    I'll reply in a few days, any other advice ?


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