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Thread: Girl blasts at me over text and then apologizes, now what?

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    Default Girl blasts at me over text and then apologizes, now what?

    First of all, the moment I sent those texts out I knew I was screwing myself over.
    But hind sight is always 20/20.
    Anyway, been out with her once (and that went great), but she's been saying No to a Day #3,
    whether she's actually busy or playing me, I don't know.

    girl: i dont think i can go tmr sorry!
    - next morning -
    me: woww. I'm so disappointed, only a dinner tmo or friday's gonna calm me down
    girl: actually busy on both days already got plans
    girl: mann i'm popular gotta let me know earlier lol
    me: well i'm spontaneous, so i guess we'll never see each other
    me: you make dinner plans next week then
    girl: no
    girl: go be spontaneous by yourself
    - 15 mins later -
    girl: im kiddddinnnggg
    girl: but i have a test nxt friday
    girl: hope i dont fail it ahaha

    So you can see, she blasts at me and obviously tries to take the tension off, to me that's her trying to take back what she said (a subtle apology). I'm guessing I'm reading this right.

    I'm seeing her in person tomorrow (class), how should I (not) react to the situtation?

    Normally I would just shrug it off and play it cool. But I feel that if I do this, she'll just think I'm being beta about it
    (because from this exchange I know that I came off as beta already.)

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    Default Re: Girl blasts at me over text and then apologizes, now what?

    For me I try to never take anything to heart, meaning I not personally moved by whats said, but action needs to be taken in response to what is said....

    In every text you made you went in soft, She turned you down you come back soft and she turn you down again a total of 4 and 2 side slanted remarks in that lil time....

    When she turned you down the first time, you tell her,Ok you call when you wanna see me or you got time, and be done with it...

    When I say done that means I'm thru with this conversation and she is on the backburner til she gets where I want her to be.

    3 things can happen 1)She'll discuss right then when she will have time 2) She'll call you when she has time 3) She wont call at all

    Better to stand like a man then to go out like a chump... Gotta be willing to lose her in order to get her

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    Default Re: Girl blasts at me over text and then apologizes, now what?

    Quote Originally Posted by Amsu13 View Post
    3 things can happen 1)She'll discuss right then when she will have time 2) She'll call you when she has time 3) She wont call at all

    Better to stand like a man then to go out like a chump... Gotta be willing to lose her in order to get her
    This assumes that one of us has already brought up the text and are going to talk about it.

    My question is what should be my attitude towards her tomorrow before this comes up, if it ever comes up? Just treat her like normal? Ignore her more than usual? Don't acknowledge her existence?

    My intention was to freeze her out, but I will have to be interacting with her for sure tomorrow.

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    Default Re: Girl blasts at me over text and then apologizes, now what?

    I actually don't think she was blasting you.
    To me, it looks like she was using a little bit of sassy, smarty-pants sarcastic humor. (aka- flirting)

    When a girl razzes you like that, she's definitely interested.

    I personally treat everything a girl says, as her joking around with me... unless there's an actual reason to take it differently.
    But, if there haven't been any real negative situations beforehand, then I'm gonna consider it "bantering".


    So, unless you've had some sort of recent argument with a girl, always take her replies as her busting on you & giving you a little bit of sh!t in a playful way.

    When she said, "go be spontaneous by yourself" you could have responded with something like:

    "Well, now that you suggested that, it really wouldn't be very spontaneous would it... "

    or

    "OK... can I borrow some lotion & a kleenex? "

    So, remember: Always think about humor & ask yourself, "What would be really funny to say right now?"



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    Default Re: Girl blasts at me over text and then apologizes, now what?

    Yes, humor is very good, Having the right response in communication really pulls a woman into you thats why you are here to step your Game up...

    Interact with her as you would on a regular day, you don't want her to see you taking a particular attitude with her. Be your natural self, but never beg a woman or whine about it.. You can drop a sad face on her, but you follow up as if everything is cool and let her text you first sometime, them you'll know where you stand with her.

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    Default Re: Girl blasts at me over text and then apologizes, now what?

    Well on Thursday basically I just conversed with other people around her and made jokes and whatnot, and not really paying attention to her.

    Today just now, in my drunken state, I decided a 2-day freeze out was good enough and texted this back:

    Aww tried to be a tuff girl but broke down in 15mins. Cute.


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