Background. I'm newly separated b/c of cheating on my part. The mistress and I became quite attached over this now 7 month relationship. However, now that my marriage is ending, I also want to be out there and date other people. I have always been up front with her about this from the very beginning. I have explained to her why I cheated, the factors that lead to it including me wanting to experience other women, and that I don't want to be too serious. All of which she agree to when we first started dating. However, as time went on, she become increasing attached and in love with me. I also have feelings for her but they aren't quite as strong as hers for me.
With my recent resurging interest in seeing others, she's pulled back and has decided to stop sleeping with me. She says we can be friends but that's it. So Im going from being intimate with her 4-5x a week to now just being friends. She's broken up with me again this week for the third time going back and forth with trying to be okay with this new lifestyle I want.
So what do I have to do or say to be able to continue being intimate with her a few times a week and still see others as they come along? Or would it be best to just leave her be and just be friends with her if I really want to become a PUA?