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    Default How do I get her to be okay with me seeing other women?

    Background. I'm newly separated b/c of cheating on my part. The mistress and I became quite attached over this now 7 month relationship. However, now that my marriage is ending, I also want to be out there and date other people. I have always been up front with her about this from the very beginning. I have explained to her why I cheated, the factors that lead to it including me wanting to experience other women, and that I don't want to be too serious. All of which she agree to when we first started dating. However, as time went on, she become increasing attached and in love with me. I also have feelings for her but they aren't quite as strong as hers for me.

    With my recent resurging interest in seeing others, she's pulled back and has decided to stop sleeping with me. She says we can be friends but that's it. So Im going from being intimate with her 4-5x a week to now just being friends. She's broken up with me again this week for the third time going back and forth with trying to be okay with this new lifestyle I want.

    So what do I have to do or say to be able to continue being intimate with her a few times a week and still see others as they come along? Or would it be best to just leave her be and just be friends with her if I really want to become a PUA?

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    Default Re: How do I get her to be okay with me seeing other women?

    you need to be honest and upfront about it with her, let her know that if she doesn't sleep with you you will just find other wemon, however, she seems like she realy likes you, withholding sex is the only thing she has power over. if you get back with her she will use it to walk all over you. if you want the lifestyle of pua then cut her loose, but if you want a lasting relationship with her then you need to be exclusive to just her. unfortuanately you can't have both, decide what you want out of life and go for it

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    Default Re: How do I get her to be okay with me seeing other women?

    Thanks meteora. What I really want is to eventually have 2-3 women I see casually but regularly. Meaning I want to see them 1-2x a week or everyother week. If a girl like the one Im talking about above is not okay with it now, does it mean she will never be okay with it? Or can you actually change a woman's mind about being one of your regulars vs what she wants, which is to be exclusive.

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    Default Re: How do I get her to be okay with me seeing other women?

    if she objects to it then you won't be able to change her min, she wants you to make her feel special, and you "cheating" on her makes her feel worthless you are not going to be able to have her as "one of many"


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