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    SonofSeaside is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl just got out of a long relationship

    So my situation is this: The girl just got out of a 5 year relationship a couple months ago, and since then we've been fooling around. I'm not "the rebound guy" because there was another one in between us. We've known each other for a few years and there's always been attraction between us, but we both were otherwise involved. Now we've been going on dates and we had a couple nights of fantastic sex, but she's still wanting to play the field a bit before she settles into anything more serious. She's explained to me that she's not looking to sleep around, and that since she broke up with her ex, she's hung out/gone on dates with several people, but that she's only slept with me. she also has repeatedly gone out of her way to tell me that if she was ready for a new relationship, that it would probably be with me. On the other hand, when guys approach her in bars or whatever, she tells them that she's single, and has given her number to a couple of them. She's never lied to me about it, she's very honest and straight-forward.

    I've been cool about the whole thing, but I'm not sure if she's just testing me, just using me for sex, or if she legitimately feels this way. In any of those scenarios, how do I move this forward?

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    Default Re: Girl just got out of a long relationship

    Obviously she came out of a 5 year relationship she's trying to play the field since she's finally back in the game.

    If she's only slept with you and has hinted that if she was to go out with somebody it would be you. I think she's into you.

    Yea she might give her number to somebody vice versa but she's ultimately come back to you. Do you talk to other girls or what?

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    SonofSeaside is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl just got out of a long relationship

    When she brought it up initially, I simply told her that I wasn't looking to jump straight into a relationship with her. We hadn't spent any time alone together yet, just with our mutual group of friends, so why would I want to put labels on something before we even knew if there was more to this other than physical attraction? When she said that I'm her top choice for a relationship in the future, I told her that I appreciated the compliment, but if that's what she wants she shouldn't wait too long to say so. Told her I can't promise I'll still be single if/when she ever decides she's ready. She said that if I were to fall in love with someone else she'd understand that. Said she wants to see me happy, even if it's not with her.

    So you think I should just continue to see her along with whoever else and give it time to play out?


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