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    Default "Do I look gay" opener

    I was chatting with another pua today, and he asked me what openers I have been using. This is one of my personal favorites, "Hey girls tell me something, do I look gay?"

    Then I can continue into the thread of being hit on by gay men, and what I should do to stop it. It conveys that I am comfortable with my sexuality and am not homophobic in any way.

    However my friend says that is the worst opener ever, he says that I am coming from a place of needing reassurance. But I disagree, I don't need reassurance and I don't care if gay men hit on me, or if I look gay for that matter. I enjoy this and have fun with this opener and because of that I set the frame of having a good time.

    If I used one of the generic openers the community uses, ie "Who lies more, guys or girls?" Not only is that used commonly, but to me, it is boring as sh1t.
    I have noticed, when it comes to opening, if I open a thread of conversation with something I actually find interesting and amusing, then by the law of state transfer the girl will be entertained as well.

    I used this several times this month and one girl actually said "Take it as a compliment, you're an attractive guy"

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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    Naa i think it's a good one. Any opener is fine as long as its used quite simply just for opening. The rule of thumb is, don't stay talking about an opener longer than 2 minutes. Or ay least that's how I learned it.

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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    "Hey guys, let me ask you something. The reason I'm asking is because a gay guy just hit on me right over there and I was wondering if I looked gay. I don't feel like I do, but what do ya'll think?"

    Is the way I would word it. I think your friend has the right idea, but if you ask this way, it's more like it just happened and you were caught off-guard. Then again, there are a lot of other openers that don't ask for their opinion on YOU. I would go with one of those, but since you like this one, I would just fine tune it some.

    And Gmin23 is right, as long as it opens! Lol.

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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    Well its an actual opener from the book "The Natural" by Richard Laruina. And I personally really like it. It's fun!

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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    As long as you like it and it works, who cares what he thinks? Lol.

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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    There is some danger of it seeming valdation-seeking, but as long as you open with a strong masculine energy, almost an "are you talkin' to me? - do I look gay" type of cockiness to the funniness of the situation then it should get attraction pretty high. Also yeah, like Gmin said, you gotta lead it somewhere or else do a takeaway.
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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    i'm curious how would u deal with it if she said, yeah u look like a f*gg0t and pissed herself laughing?

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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    i'm curious how would u deal with it if she said, yeah u look like a f*gg0t and pissed herself laughing?
    I would say, "Oh so I look that good then?" But, of course in theory this would never happen, it's not logically beneficial to believe it would, so don't believe it would ^.~ Haha.

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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    i'm curious how would u deal with it if she said, yeah u look like a f*gg0t and pissed herself laughing?
    I'd say:

    "Well that's good because you look like a man, so I guess we should go b*ne now. Your place or mine, sir?"


    Lol jk jk.... dont say that ^


    If she calls you f@gg@t then it's a sh1t test. I'd probably ignore it so she has to repeate herself (loweing value) then ask her friend "is she always like this? Kinda b1tchy - I like it" (I won't try to pull off a b-word if I don't think I can), then I'd pull her back in with "no, seriously, tho this looks gay?..." then debate it with her by directly countering her or by reductio ad absurdum - Agreeing with her and extending her argument to the point of absurdity


    Sh1t like that is what I'd to, just keep it engaged

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    I would say, "Oh so I look that good then?" But, of course in theory this would never happen, it's not logically beneficial to believe it would, so don't believe it would ^.~ Haha.
    "So I look good? Like "gay-guy-good"? So you give me the triple G of hotness. Do I look like a twink f@g or a bear f@g? Like would I be the top or the bottom? I mean these are things I need to know for the next guy who tries to buy me a drink. Do I seem like the type who stuggled with the closet? (< risky move because it's a sensitive subject, stack away quick) like maybe I was raised a preechers son, you seem like a nice girl type..." (transition into getting guys numbers competition with her / or just start pointing around the bar and making up fictional "if they were gay" stories/profiles about everyone)
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    Default Re: "Do I look gay" opener

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    "So I look good? Like "gay-guy-good"? So you give me the triple G of hotness.
    Awesome! Lol. People ask me if I'm gay all the time, because I use peacock theory and vibrant clothing. I like the strategy behind it, and feel better with that style, so I'll definitely be using that next time I'm asked. Haha.


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