I just got burned pretty badly in a oneitis case , this HB gave me tons of IoIs and we were really , really emotionally close , she broke up with her bf After a while and then decided " she didnt like me " . Honestly it makes no sense And I think she was afraid to date a black guy in front of her friends and her super bitch mom but it is what it is . Needless to say I am hurt and scarred from the situation and there is still a bit of lingering hope inside of me that hasn't been crushed yet , and sadly this girl I am forced to be around for an hour every day and watch other guys flirt with her and give her attention ( she's super sexy ) .
Enough of my soliloquy , the point is that whenever I look at a girl and start talking to her for whatever the reason , I have no motivation or will to even try to befriend / date them even if thy are extremely attractive. I feel like im going to want to be single for a loooooooong time but I think this is an unhealthy practice . Does anyone have any tips to deal with this or should I just man up and date another girl?