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Thread: Bouncing Back

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    Default Bouncing Back

    I just got burned pretty badly in a oneitis case , this HB gave me tons of IoIs and we were really , really emotionally close , she broke up with her bf After a while and then decided " she didnt like me " . Honestly it makes no sense And I think she was afraid to date a black guy in front of her friends and her super bitch mom but it is what it is . Needless to say I am hurt and scarred from the situation and there is still a bit of lingering hope inside of me that hasn't been crushed yet , and sadly this girl I am forced to be around for an hour every day and watch other guys flirt with her and give her attention ( she's super sexy ) .

    Enough of my soliloquy , the point is that whenever I look at a girl and start talking to her for whatever the reason , I have no motivation or will to even try to befriend / date them even if thy are extremely attractive. I feel like im going to want to be single for a loooooooong time but I think this is an unhealthy practice . Does anyone have any tips to deal with this or should I just man up and date another girl?

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    Default Re: Bouncing Back

    read this
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-get-you...r-ex-back.html
    you likely failed a congruency test (you weren't congruent with something you said/ly'd to her) or you stopped creating the necisary attraction needed to keep her, often times we get lazy at some point when we realy should be stepping our game up a notch figure out exactly what happened and how you can keep from having it happen in the future.
    btw, you need to realize that she is just another girl, there's nothing special about her that makes her any better than the rest

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    Default Re: Bouncing Back

    Thanks bro.

    I just want to clarify my message in case it wasn't that clear, this girl was never my GF, I was gaming her while she was dating another guy, she gave me HUGE signs that she wanted my dick, and upon ending the relationship with her BF, she says she has no feelings for me. I will read that though.

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    Default Re: Bouncing Back

    in that case you lost her attraction at some point you didn't even date her so don't get too hung up about it


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