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Thread: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

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    Default Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    Okay so I just got done reading this article that was saying that if you want to be a successful pua, that your better off being motivated by sex rather than being motivated by desire to become the best.

    Now I found this article to be really interesting because it does make a lot of sense considering that sex drive is one of the most powerful motivators there is. What really blew me away was seeing how big of a difference that actually makes when I stopped and reflected on pick ups I've done in the past and what I was successful with and I did notice that when motivated by sex because of whatever reason, I had more success.

    For me my motivators change from day to day depending on the material I've read or the girls that I've recently been talkingto. Other than those two motivators though, the only other one I've used is a bet.

    I know it sounds crude, but depending on the bet, it can force you to do things you normally wouldn't like be less selective, or think outside the box and get away from the routine you've gotten yourself into thats put you in a dry spell.

    What i was curious about is what motivates some of the better pua's on the forum.
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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    i must say that i am highly motivated by the combination of my sex drive and emotional need of attachment, i know it kinda sounds afc to need "attachment" but what i mean by this is that one day i want to find a girl who i can love for the rest of my life, she can't be just any girl though. so i have to "filter" through all thats out there so i can find "the one"

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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    Yeah I don't think thats afc at all. I love women in general and I love being surrounded by them. Marraige is winning the game though right. Nothing wrong with wanting that
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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    I'm kind of the same as Meteora. The only thing I think is more of a motivator for me is control. Control over myself and my life. I'm actually such a control freak that I learned to gain more control you have to release it. Ironic.
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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    Interesting. Makes sense to me though. Thanks batman
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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    Sounds bad, but validation is a big thing, I just like knowing that I could have a girl if I wanted her :L but sex drive definitely works, I mean.....stop beating off like completely and you'll be far more motivated to go out and hit on girls lol

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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    Yeah the validation is a big one for me too id say. The more validated you feel with every successful close, the more confident you get enabling you to do better. Thanks Bro, forgot about that one
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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    Mine will sound kind of childish but it's a true , i call it " greatness " which mean feeding my ego ,, every time i hook up with a girl i just feel on the top of the world and that feeling is what makes me want to do it more and more , it's like a drug but even better because it's legal , lol

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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    lol so pretty much self validation on a larger scale.
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    Default Re: Question on motivators. Just want some opinions

    Y'all some philosophers lol, I have to agree with Mody, I am kinda the same way.


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