So I have been talking to this girl now for a week or so. We work together. Ive worked with her for about a year now but was never really interested in her, we had a few conversations here and there but nothing too much.
Last week or so I woke up to a text from her and from then we just started talking to eachother. I was being pretty flirty with her over text, she was too. She sits on the other side of the building at work but we see eachother on breaks and stuff. So after work last thursday we went outside and smoked a cig together and then smoked some other stuff in my car (lol). She said "my boyfriend is a douchebag" at one point and I pretty much just ignored it and changed the subject. She said she could only spend 5 minutes after work because she had to meet the FedEx guy but I turned it into 30 minutes, mainly just talking and joking around.
We texted and had some conversations throughout friday and the weekend, but the flirtyness definitely died down on her side, and she doesnt respond to my texts as quickly as she did. So I am backing off for now. At one point she told me she had to delete a text I sent her, I am assuming its because her boyfriend can find out.
She has been with her boyfriend for I believe over a year, and they live together. The text patterns are becoming weird because now she doesnt text back nearly as fast as she was, when I know she can because she is on her phone all the time at work.
I'm not sure what to do at all, this thing is fucking me up because I really like this girl, she has an amazing personality. Texts are really just conversations, not really going anywhere. I need some advice to keep this alive so I can get her away from the boyfriend.
I will be the first to admit I have the one-itis right now, but if I can get her I feel like I will finally be happy.