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    Default Need Help with Girl That Suddenly Acting Cold

    Thanks in advance for answering this btw.

    So first, I work with this girl in a professional job setting. We often flirt back and fourth. She pretty much begged me to add her on facebook and even jokes about having a secret diary of our wedding/baby plans. Work is sticky and I usually don't like dating someone who I have to literally work with everyday. However,

    On Thursday she makes a move and asks if I am doing anything on Friday night and says that she wants to "go to a bar and get drunk". Friday rolls around and I ask her at work if were still on. She replies that she "doesn't feel like doing anything and is probably going to sleep". I basically am like fark it, I still wanna go out; I gather a bunch of co-workers together and we all go out and have an awesome time drinking etc. (girls and guys mind you)

    On Monday I basically do what I have learned on this forum. After I ask her what she did on Friday I say something like, "I gathered together a bunch of co-workers and we had an awesome time, but I totally understand that sometimes you need a good sleep." She basically got playfully mad that I didn't tell her, that I ditched her, and that it was her idea to go out in the first place. I stayed indifferent and made it clear that she said she had wanted to sleep etc.

    Now today she was really cold toward me. Basically not being playful or teasing. Almost anything I said she was snippy/cold about. I pretty much again stayed indifferent and didn't treat her any different. She even brought up again the fact that I "ditched" her and even called me a d1ck.

    I guess me question is what's my next play with this one? She clearly only asked me if I was doing anything Thursday which was a clear IOI. Then she gets mad/pissy when she finds out I went out with other co-workers and didn't tell her. Now she's down right cold lol. I would venture I am in a good scenario because I really don't give a fark either way. But can I get this forum's awesome advice? Sorry for it being long.

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    Default Re: Need Help with Girl That Suddenly Acting Cold

    Ignore / No Contact...
    Or at least as little interaction as possible.

    OR...
    Call her out for being a spoiled little bratty baby.
    (Don't be an @ss about it though. Just be straightforward, & still slightly playful... more like teasing her.)


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    Default Re: Need Help with Girl That Suddenly Acting Cold

    Ok I think i'll go for the ladder just because i can pull that off better and I really don't wanna give the wrong idea that I was effected by her being a brat. Also, how and when should I go about asking her to do something in the future? And how can I word it in a way that says I want it to be just me and her and no co-workers without coming off as showing too much interest?

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    Default Re: Need Help with Girl That Suddenly Acting Cold

    Update:

    Today she was pretty flirty/touchy at work. There was a point where I had to go to another building where I work, and so did she. She drove and when I sat in her car she said, "careful not to sit on my birth control I don't wanna get preggo".

    Is this pretty much saying have sex with me? She's exhibiting no signs that I have been friend zoned. At this point i'm going to try and get her to chill outside work and f-close. Thoughts?


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