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Thread: I.O.Is Everywhere But She's Seeing Someone

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    Exclamation I.O.Is Everywhere But She's Seeing Someone

    About 3 weeks ago, in college, a girl, who I had never talked to before, showed IOIs the moment she said hi to me. An 8. She came to me, not the other way around for once. After a couple of days, I decided to get to know her more, that went ok, nothing great or awful, she added me on FB. After deciding to briefly glance at her profile, I saw she had an "in a relationship" status. I kinda forgot about her after I found that out. I see her around once in a while, smiled, said hey, quick chat, being friendly, etc. That was then.

    Yesterday, I go up to the studio where we all are, I see a group of college mates in a circle, I join them. 2 minutes later I felt someone gently kick the back of my leg (unfortunately it was right behind my knee so it hurt like a b*tch) I turn around and I see her smiling face there. "Hey!" she says.

    Now, I honestly hadn't seen her in the corner of the room at the back when I turned my back to her and I'm sensing a kick is a pretty desperate action for attention. She wants me to notice her. I excuse myself, say bye to everyone a few minutes later and go down the stairs. Who's behind me in a matter of seconds? Her and only her. She shouted something in a sarcastic voice for me to notice her. I do the Push and Pull technique as we walk, saying stuff like "Get away from me, stalker!" in a playful voice whilst smiling and she's playful back. She also asked if I was going to this friendly get together for lunch tomorrow.

    What advice can you give me for being in this situation? Would you "go for it" with her? Is she bored with her current BF? Probably, but I would like to hear other peoples' thoughts.
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    Default Re: I.O.Is Everywhere But She's Seeing Someone

    Based on what I've heard so far, I'm not even certain that she is in a relationship. Are you even sure that she is? It could be long term for all you know which=doomed. Or, if she does have a boyfriend, he could be a complete douchebag who treats her like garbage. My point is, you never know until you ask. Get to know her a little better before you automatically kick her to the curb. If she does so what? She's not married and all is fair in love and war isn't it?. If her relationship was so important to her, she wouldn't be chasing you around trying to get your attention. Believe me, you don't want to be kicking yourself ten years from now for not hooking up with that hot 8 that you met in college! Enjoy your youth my friend.
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    Default Re: I.O.Is Everywhere But She's Seeing Someone

    Btw, I meant long distance. I just read my post over again. Lol, long term relationships could also be doomed I guess...
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    Default Re: I.O.Is Everywhere But She's Seeing Someone

    Plain and simple. If the bf is doing his job you will only get so far. If he isn't (or if she's a bit promiscuous) then you've got a shot. I highly suggest NOT to chase after an LTR with her though. No matter how special you think she is or your relationship together.
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    Default Re: I.O.Is Everywhere But She's Seeing Someone

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Plain and simple. If the bf is doing his job you will only get so far. If he isn't (or if she's a bit promiscuous) then you've got a shot. I highly suggest NOT to chase after an LTR with her though. No matter how special you think she is or your relationship together.
    And why do you suggest not to chase after an LTR with her, BatMan? (Because if I become her bf she might do the same to me like the guy she's seeing now?)
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    Default Re: I.O.Is Everywhere But She's Seeing Someone

    Exactly. I do not doubt you will have a special connection that is unique in itself. However, once reality sets in and it wears off you'll both realize that you are flawed. Once the issues and arguing start then you'll remember how she usually deals with stressful relationships....by seeking another one before the current one is done.

    Now of course this is not guaranteed that she will do this, but I prefer to not even bother if I know she has that habit.
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