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    Default Re: How often to contact girl that lives in Montreal (I am in NYC) ?

    all you have to do is get her to talk about herself then relate to her with a short dhv storie (be a little brief so it has some unanswered questions for her to ask) if she takes the bait she will ask you a question about your story, be sure to always ask some kind of question like "have you ever been on a cruise? one time i took one of my friends with me to the bahamas..........) you get the idea. starting a storie with a question helps to add an extra layer of raport btw make sure your stories always have some kind of unexpected twist (even if you have to "strech" the truth a little)

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    Default Re: How often to contact girl that lives in Montreal (I am in NYC) ?

    I had probably my longest IM conversation with this girl last night, but I still feel like it's hard to get a conversation moving with her. Once I started throwing negs her way it went more quickly, but I can't tell if maybe there's some kind of language barrier, or if she's just really boring. I usually assume this is some form of being uninterested, but she initiates contact more than I do, and talks a lot about meeting up when she's in NYC.

    Here's our conversation from last night. She also never usually ends a conversation, she just disappears. That's a bit frustrating, as you'll see the conversation just ends abruptly.

    Me: horror movies. recommend some

    Her: I haven't watched any in a really really long time
    And haven't watched a good movie period in a long time
    I'm watching good bye Lenin right noq
    And really enjoying it cuz I was in Berlin this summer

    Me: oh man, i love john lennon
    never heard of it, is it good?

    Her: im only like 40 min into it

    Me: sounds exciting
    i just watched the most boring documentary ever
    it's giving me ennui

    Her: Haha
    It's pretty good so far
    You should watch it

    Me: what's it about?

    Her: This family who's mom was very pro DDR fell into a coma and during the 8 months she was in the coma the wall fell
    So then when she woke up Germany wasn't communist anymoreAnd western culture oriented

    Me: DDR?
    dance dance revolution?

    Her: German Democratic Republic
    Soo east Berlin pro communism

    Me: that was my next guess
    sounds interesting
    not on netflix, though

    Her: Yes
    Well Canadian Netflix

    Me: that's right, i have american netflix
    we only have action movies and honey boo boo child over here

    Her: Haha
    But u have a lot more selection
    Canadian Netflix doesn't have much

    Me: that's right, we have all 5 rocky movies
    and both delta forces
    excuse me
    6 rocky movies

    Her: Haha we have no rocky
    But foreign films.......

    Me: oui?

    Her: Oui!

    Me: rocky's sort of foreign
    you can't understand a word coming out of stallone's mouth

    Her: Lol!
    Do you have terminator 3? We only have 1 and 2
    Although u really only need 2...

    Me: we only have the first
    the fark???

    Her: Hahahahahahahahahahs ha
    I just checked
    NOT LYING

    Me: no fair!

    Her: we only have 2
    We don't have 1
    That's so funny
    Wow Canadian Netflix is better

    Me: did you see the new one with christian bale?

    Her: of course.......

    Me: [Her name].....
    are you....
    a nerd?

    Her: I LOVE terminator
    Terminator 2 is one of my favorite movies...

    Me: oh yeah?

    Her: Well ok maybe I'm exaggerating

    Me: hah hah, don't be modest

    Her: Meh maybe not I really liked it..

    Me: there's nothing wrong with liking it
    it's just that you might be a dork butt

    Her: For sure I am
    I can Just hope that the rest of the good or cool movies I watch balance it out

    Me: hmmmmmmm
    alright, then
    top 3 movies

    Her: They would all be Wes Anderson probably..

    Me: siiiiiigh

    Her: Haha

    Me: you might be a hipster
    just warning you

    Her: You live in Brooklyn so whatever
    What's your top 3?

    Me: terminator 1
    terminator 2
    terminator 3

    Her: In that order??? Pfffff

    Me: wait, it's not
    number 1 is obviously terminator 3

    Her: Really? Terminator 2 was my fave
    You re distracting me from my movie now I can't read subtitles and talk to you at the same time!
    Watch it its good!

    Me: hah hah, i'm kidding
    and believe it or not, these IMs are the actual subtitles for the movie
    so you're not missing a thing

    Her: Hahaha

    Me: and watching a movie where you have to read?
    definite dork butt status

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    Default Re: How often to contact girl that lives in Montreal (I am in NYC) ?

    good convo, with lots of raport building. though i do like your use of creative misinterperatations (especialy ddr "dance dance revolution" lol) i use them all the time when i flirt with girls. keep up the good work. i like your style of messaging, though i always make syre she is the one who sends the last message. that way i'm the one who left the convo and it leaves her hangin

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    Default Re: How often to contact girl that lives in Montreal (I am in NYC) ?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    good convo, with lots of raport building. though i do like your use of creative misinterperatations (especialy ddr "dance dance revolution" lol) i use them all the time when i flirt with girls. keep up the good work. i like your style of messaging, though i always make syre she is the one who sends the last message. that way i'm the one who left the convo and it leaves her hangin
    Awesome, glad to know I'm on the right track! I basically just pretended to be chatting with a homely girl so I didn't have the usual anxiety associated with texting/IMing a hot chick. There's always that fear that you might say the wrong thing to piss her off, but it's safe to do that if you have to skills to bounce back or make it playful. The mindset also carries over into the texts/IM's. I've found that being nervous can translate into the texts. Likewise, confidence shows through the texts, as well. It's all about the language you use.

    I also agree that it's best to have her have the last word. Only once has this girl really signed off and said goodbye. Usually she just disappears after a while. It's a weird sign of disinterest, but she shows other IOI's to balance it out. I got her really chatty last night, too, she's usually very quiet. Now the big problem is getting her to respond quickly, she usually takes her damn time. I guess that's why the conversations are so short, it takes a while for both of us to pick it up, respond, etc. I usually mirror her when IMing back and forth, never trying to respond quickly unless I can throw in a good neg, joke, remark, etc.

    So she'll be in my city in about 3 weeks. Should I escalate it more, or keep building rapport and then do the escalation when I see her in person?


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