I've mentioned on here the French Canadian HB 8.5 I hooked up with a couple months back. I had never brought a girl home the same night as meeting her, so it was a cool experience for me. Add in that she was leaps and bounds hotter than the girls I've been getting lately, so it was definitely a good time.
Here's the thing - She lives in Montreal, which is pretty far away from where I live (NYC). She makes the trip to New York occasionally, but won't be back until late December. We still talk every so often, with her and I initiating the conversation about equally. The last time we spoke she IMed me to see if I was doing alright during the hurricane. We got to talking about her visiting, and she said she definitely wanted to meet up again.
I know that nothing serious will come of this, but I'd like to see her again, and stay in a bit of contact. This girl is really gorgeous, and I've only contacted her when I felt super good and confident about myself - I don't want any beta slipping into the conversation. So far I've limited myself to once a week or once every 2 weeks.
So the question is, how often should I start up a conversation? More often than I am now? Less often? Let her initiate first? Should I try and escalate things next time we speak, or be the man of few words and keep myself mysterious?