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    Unhappy How to avoid negative eye coding ?

    I recentley been getting girls negativly eye code her friends and it makes things awkward and after that happens the whole set is just ready to eject a couple of minutes later. How do I avoid it ????? More Importantly how can I recover from it????

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    Default Re: How to avoid negative eye coding ?

    Do you mean negative eye contact? Not even sure what that means. Do they roll their eyes or something? What makes it negative?
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    Default Re: How to avoid negative eye coding ?

    Its when you are talking to them and they look at you and look at each other in an awkward way and it makes the set awkward and I dont know how to recover from it. unfortunatley as soon as the girl doesnt like you in a set your whole set is basically distroyed. Should I call them out on it and say "you just made this really awkward for all of us" ??

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    Default Re: How to avoid negative eye coding ?

    Oh ok. Eye coding. That's a good term. Never heard of it.

    No I would call them on it as such. It could very likely make the situation even more awkward. Your goal isn't to make things awkward.

    I want you to reflect on every time that's happened. See if you can pinpoint the issue. Never do this while you're in the set mind you. Only after do you reflect and analyze.

    If it happens again just make a note of it and keep pushing through. Style said he likes to see streetlights in front of each girl. He'd give each one a red, yellow, or green and tend to the ones that were yellow or red until the others started to turn yellow.

    Basically keep running attraction material. Use push/pull and DHV stories. I personally like to use quotes about life. Makes me seem really deep (I think I'm deep? Hmmm). Focus on attraction switches and flipping them on. And as always you can eject with a "It's been a pleasure, but I must go."
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    Default Re: How to avoid negative eye coding ?

    Well I'm pretty sure it usually happens after either when I have higher energy than them or if the set is not hooked after like 10 minutes.


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