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    Default Dealing with DLV

    So I still live with my parents at the moment... I'm only 23 and I only just graduated so its hard to expect aanything else.

    I have a good job and I earn a fair amount and it wont be long before i move out.

    My question is how do i deal with it for the time being without serious dlv?

    At the moment my strategy is to simply make sure I build enough attraction and have a few dates before I break the bad news or slip it into conversation in a casual way.

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    Default Re: Dealing with DLV

    Slip the bad news? What bad news? That you live with your parents?

    I was living with my mother, no job, and lost my car, and still got laid. What matters is how YOU perceive it. I always looked like I was happy because I knew it was temporary. I was aiming for higher things. Ambition my friend. Ambition.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Dealing with DLV

    I had the longest relationship of my life while living with my mom after college. In fact, it took me about 3 or 4 years after graduating college to finally move into my own place. I agree with BatMan, just say that it's temporary, and only talk about it if she asks. My explanation (Which is true) was that my mother fell onto hard times financially, and I stayed at home to help her out until she was back on her feet. This could go either way - They could think of me as a pushover, or as a decent guy with good family values.

    Another thing I learned is that if a girl doesn't respect your living situation, then she doesn't respect you. If she runs the other way after finding out you live with your parents then she isn't worth your time.

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    Default Re: Dealing with DLV

    Good stuff fellas, good stuff.

    That used to stop me alot when i was younger. Best thing i found is to have a couple back up places ready in case u need to 'spend some quality time together.'

    BUT make sure u have a couple places (or try to use hers as often as possible). If u get too 'well known' at a certain hotel, she will wonder how many other girls u brought there lol.

    Having a few places is also good for gaming attached girls as well.
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    Default Re: Dealing with DLV

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Slip the bad news? What bad news? That you live with your parents?

    I was living with my mother, no job, and lost my car, and still got laid. What matters is how YOU perceive it. I always looked like I was happy because I knew it was temporary. I was aiming for higher things. Ambition my friend. Ambition.
    Girls can respect the maturity it takes to recognize logistical necessity while you set yourself up to achieve your goals -> in that way living with your parents is a DHV. And like BatMan says it's all about controlling your frame.

    Honestly up until a few months ago I was 22/23, living with my mom, attending community college and still picking up girls at bars then bouncing them (on the bus xD) back to THEIR OWN place. It is ALL about how you frame to make an apparent DLV become a DHV.

    Also is you demonstrate enough value in your total game, she'll be eager to overlook any 'flaws' you might think you have.

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