New to the game, and need some help! Have met several girls HB6-7 and managed to F-Close them between 1-3 dates over the last 3 months.
Met a HB8 online and have met up with her on dates and also later at her place 6 times in total. However, she is not very physically proactive and it's usually a case of a kiss hello and a kiss goodbye. Although I do try to escalate kino but don't get much of a reaction.
Have held hands with her and got her comfy with that but again, always me that initiates it. I've managed to stay over at her place a couple of times too but despite my best efforts, she just didn't seem interested in anything sexual and seemed to just want to go to sleep despite me trying the stroking/tickling/cuddling deal to no reaction.
We have fun on the dates and I do like her, but another thing is it's always me who texts her first. She will reply back normally fair quickly, but again sometimes it's always her who doesn't reply last. She has only texted me first about twice in the last 5 weeks.
I decided this week to put her on freeze out after she didn't reply to a text at the weekend. It wasn't a text that needed an answer but a reply would be nice within a couple of days imo but I haven't heard from her in 5 days now.
I called her on it a little bit kinda early on during week 2, and she said she's guarded with her feelings...but does like me. I've also met her daughter once at her place but the lack of physical progress is really frustrating - as if the lack of her texting first.