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    SoupSauce is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl who doesnt like hugs

    So just last week, i approached a girl in my school and got her number. Shes in one of my classes and shes new to the school. we have been talking a lot. And shes friendly and has given me some IOI's. Shes not shy, but she has no friends. She also says shes very mean and a loner.

    Today when we were parting ways, i held my arms out to give her a hug. But she refused and said no. Then i playfully asked for a handshake, and she also refused. Finnally i held out my fist for a fistbump of some sort. She said "No thats weird!"

    we talked after, she said she just doesnt like hugs.

    I dont know what to do with this girl. This is my first post. If im not clear, ask me!

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Girl who doesnt like hugs

    introduce her to your friends, hang out with her there it'll give her a chance to see who you are - easing her a bit

    next work you're way up physically to a hug, try hi5ing her,

    then ask her if she's ever back5'd someone (like reverse hi 5 - but say back5 it sounds cooler ^_^)

    maybe a secret handshake u have with her u could make up...stuff like that and then tell her to "come here" and retry the hug (y)

    some of the crap we did in high school was nutz haha you could clonk elbows together :P

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    Default Re: Girl who doesnt like hugs

    She sounds a bit socially awkward. She probably likes people but fears
    that they might reject her. She remains a little distant and possibly
    even does things to try to get people to reject her before she can get
    too close to them and therefore hurt. It all sounds a bit defensive on
    her part.

    Take it slow and give her time to relax around you. Remember not to
    take stuff like her not hugging you as anything personal.


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