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Thread: She sends MAJOR IOI texts and then goes cold...

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    Default She sends MAJOR IOI texts and then goes cold...

    I went out tonight with a girl on the 5th date...previous dates were great and we REALLY hit it off. She started sending me all these text messages about how much she liked me/how special I was to her etc....I reciprocated and told her the same stuff...well we went out tonight and she was instantly cold...it was really really difficult to make conversation and she seemed like she didn't want to be there. Date ended with a hug...

    Literally the previous night the last text she sent me was talking about how much she liked me...and then this. No idea what to think. It was by far the worst date I've ever been on...I thought maybe she was just having a bad day but she didn't want to hang out after for a movie or anything...gave some bs excuse about going to bed at 8pm.

    Since things were going well for us I tended to set up a date every 3-4 days or so...maybe this was too much or maybe I showed too much interest. But I thought it is okay to show interest once she's literally sending texts about how great she thinks I am.....ohhhh I'm lost on this one.

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    Default Re: She sends MAJOR IOI texts and then goes cold...

    just an opinion but maybe she realized the chase was over, she has you and girls are attracted to something they can't get or control.or it really could be that she's having a bad day or found someone better and doesnt know how to tell you...dont dwell on that but I suggest you text her a little less, if you text all day what do you really have to talk about in person? on your dates be alpha dont show her too much interest use a couple of push and pull tactics
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    Default Re: She sends MAJOR IOI texts and then goes cold...

    I shot her a text that asked if everything was okay. I said I think we're probably moving to fast and may be better off just being friends.

    she replied saying "????! I had a great time and wanted to go out! On the contrary I think you're going too slow haha sorry you're a gentleman and I'm just not used to it"

    Last time we hung out I tried to physically escalate past making out and she stopped me
    Tonight I tried to watch a movie with her after the date and she mentioned going to bed at 8pm...and the date ended with a hug (5th date) so naturally I assumed she's not that interested...yet I get that text.

    Am I being toyed with or something? I don't understand how she texts me saying she enjoyed hanging out tonight (when I had an AWFUL time) and when I suggest we just be friends she tells me I'm moving too slow even though every time I try to escalate I get stopped for some reason or another.

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    Default Re: She sends MAJOR IOI texts and then goes cold...

    Man I would try and change that gentleman persona asap. And usually when a girl tells you to stop it really means she wants you to keep going. Be more dominant and alpha in that situation.


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