so here's what's up,
i dated this girl back in middle school. Didn't talk to her again until about a month & a half ago when I looked her up on Facebook.
I reached out to her & we started talking & right off the bat, she seemed very interested. So I asked her out and we went & got some ice cream together. it was awesome, we talked for about 3 hours, we laughed & joked & flirted and everything seemed to be going perfect.
To make a long story short, she has been very stand off-ish since then. Still, every time we text she will undeniably flirt with me but then the next day it is as if I don't exist anymore. I will leave her be for about a week or two, send her something cute, we start talking, flirting and then bam she hits me with the silence again, usually by not responding to my last text message.
So I've let her be for the most part but I really like her & want to pursue a relationship with her. But she is giving me all the signs of not being interested. But whenever we talk she won't hesitate to flirt with me & of course I flirt right back. But as stated before, I get ignored again.
It's been two weeks since I talked to her and she hasn't bothered to say a word to me. Last time I asked her to hang out, all she said was that she already had plans.
So I am stuck. Is this playing hard to get, or is this a clear sign of not being interested?
Would I be a fool to persist on trying to win her over or would I be wise just to move on?