Last time I hung out with this girl we almost hooked up, but as we were taking clothes off and getting more heated she pulled the "period card". I suggested we could still have fun but it didnt work out to my satisfaction.
This is long distance, so I kind of cut her off a few weeks later and gave her an ultimatum. She said no without meaning it totally and then came back saying she changed her mind and now were a little closer after a few heart to hearts.
Got another date set up this weekend and she mentioned we might hang with her friend and do a double date after our own date during the day....
Is it going to be a test? I know that her friend has heard some stuff about me undoubtedly, because she was with my girl the night before the date we almost hooked up and even let my girl offer her number when my girls phone died and she wanted to keep drunk chatting.
Im sure the friend heard about the whole cut off thing too and how we decided to keep staying in touch to see where things end up.
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I want to know how I should play this if I do end up on the double date. I feel like her friend will be keen to judge my every move and that if i reallllly played my cards right she might invite me and my girl over to hang and then maybe sleep over before driving my girl back and leaving town the next day. That would be my chance to hook up again and I think thats what theyre planning on ..we go to a little bonfire then the friend invites us back and suggests we just stay the night if i dont have to go back to my own town which I usually do after a few hours but I feel like of I go on a date with my girl and then a double date after it kind of means shes trying to extend her time with me and theres a possibility I could get a "stay the night ticket" if get her friends approval. And if not I have a feeling theyll find a way to get me to go home after the bon fire.
What do you guys think of all this? Will it be a test? How should I play it? And is there actually a possibility at getting with this girl on that night or am I setting hopes too high considering I got the period card last time though it seems she definitely interested or she wouldnt have became so desperate when I cut her off....
Any help appreciated!