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    Slybootsucci is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Is This Date Going To Be A Test?

    Last time I hung out with this girl we almost hooked up, but as we were taking clothes off and getting more heated she pulled the "period card". I suggested we could still have fun but it didnt work out to my satisfaction.

    This is long distance, so I kind of cut her off a few weeks later and gave her an ultimatum. She said no without meaning it totally and then came back saying she changed her mind and now were a little closer after a few heart to hearts.

    Got another date set up this weekend and she mentioned we might hang with her friend and do a double date after our own date during the day....

    Is it going to be a test? I know that her friend has heard some stuff about me undoubtedly, because she was with my girl the night before the date we almost hooked up and even let my girl offer her number when my girls phone died and she wanted to keep drunk chatting.

    Im sure the friend heard about the whole cut off thing too and how we decided to keep staying in touch to see where things end up.

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    I want to know how I should play this if I do end up on the double date. I feel like her friend will be keen to judge my every move and that if i reallllly played my cards right she might invite me and my girl over to hang and then maybe sleep over before driving my girl back and leaving town the next day. That would be my chance to hook up again and I think thats what theyre planning on ..we go to a little bonfire then the friend invites us back and suggests we just stay the night if i dont have to go back to my own town which I usually do after a few hours but I feel like of I go on a date with my girl and then a double date after it kind of means shes trying to extend her time with me and theres a possibility I could get a "stay the night ticket" if get her friends approval. And if not I have a feeling theyll find a way to get me to go home after the bon fire.

    What do you guys think of all this? Will it be a test? How should I play it? And is there actually a possibility at getting with this girl on that night or am I setting hopes too high considering I got the period card last time though it seems she definitely interested or she wouldnt have became so desperate when I cut her off....

    Any help appreciated!

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    Slybootsucci is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Is This Date Going To Be A Test?

    Bump. Read just the top half if you have to! This will be tomorrow so any advice today helps.

    Also, I avoided contacting her yesterday since things have been well...is that a good move to make it seem like im not too desperate for her nemore?

    I did text her some silly dream i had about her this morning tho, usually gives her something to smile/laugh about in the morning.

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    Default Re: Is This Date Going To Be A Test?

    You kinda asked the same question several times.
    Relax and quit thinking of everything as a "test" that you must pass.
    No one here can tell you everything that will happen but nothing
    about this is really a big deal. Go out and do your best to seduce
    her for the first part of the date, and then from there make sure
    not to ignore her friends for the second part. Go with the flow and
    see how it plays out, you will do fine.

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    Default Re: Is This Date Going To Be A Test?

    Probably overthinking it yes, but Im not big on double dates so I was just asking if anyones ever been invited on one and it turned out to be some little test the two girls set up as in, they set up the date specifically so the good friend could "approve" under the notion the girl you were with was contemplating "giving it up" finally.

    Ill calm down though sorry, just a lil nervous cuz we have this whole rocky history of being at a distance but wanting each other really bad and Ive got about 6 months to make this go in the right direction and get a solid chance at being intimate or else well prolly call it quits as it gets closer to me moving on with my life and her not being sure enough about me to want to be part of that and continue forward with me.

    Big deal to me haha, as I do love the girl very much...


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