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    Chache is offline PUA in Training
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    Default I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    Messed it up with a girl.

    What I'm basically asking is. What should I do to fix this? And no I am not trying to get back with her, but I like her company and want to maybe date her. Hopefully that makes sense. Let me know If you guys have any suggestions. And btw this is my first real post so hopefully its a good one

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    Go for a casual date or somewhere you can kino easily and she is comfortable for a first kiss (assuming you haven't kissed yet) and that sort of intimacy. Ignore what happened before and start a fresh.

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    Chache is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    Thanks for the reply. And yeah that makes sense.

    Well then from here, do I wait for her to contact me? Or do I do the whole 'No contact' thing for a while?

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    Chache is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    I'm pretty much stuck cause I dont know whether to call her and plan a date or just wait for her to contact me. And dont wanna break any rules and end up out of the game with her completely

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    Default Re: I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    Im no pro, but I would freeze out a bit, a few days or a week depending on how much you guys talk.

    Like the advice before, ignore what happened and start a fresh conversation. Something fun and flirty that she mutually shows interest in.

    Once you get her talking playfully ask her on a date.

    For future reference, don't apologize, even if you are acting like an ass. Your not sorry for trying to kino her right? =)

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    Chache is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    Yeah I think its been a couple of days so far. Its pretty hard not to try to text her. But I guess thats my AFC side talking. And yeah I'll freeze-out for a bit and see what happens.

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    Default Re: I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    and btw thanks for the reply fresh and white

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    Default Re: I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    So I'm reviving this thread right now since I made contact with my target again.

    II texted her randomly asking her if she remembered a trip we went on when we dated.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I did all the wrong things the 2nd time

    Just go for it bro!! Take her on a date!


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