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Thread: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

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    Default Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    Ok So I have seen this girl three times. I have had a ton of kino with her, but everytime I go for the kiss she never goes for it. I even tried Mystery's kiss routine, and nothing...

    So i've been telling her I want a stable relationship, because i'm tired of going from girl to girl. I thought that was a good DHV routine, but i'm not so sure anymore..

    She started to be a little distant, and even told me I should probably start dating some of these random girls, but today she texted me about hanging out.

    So as I'm leaving the house to meet up with her, she texts me saying she has to leave to somewhere else at 9pm, and asks me if it's okay with me.

    We meet up, and have a lot of good conversation and Kino. I know she was digging me. We were talking about the recent Storm and she told me she was stayed at a "Friends house" I asked if it was at a guy's house and she laughed it off and acted all nervous. She said it was girl friend.

    After a while she admits that it was a guy friend, not a girl. I asked her if they had sex, and she said "no", that they just "kissed a little", and that at 9pm she was going to his place, and spending the night there.

    Is this girl BULLsh1tTING ME ? Is she farking this guy ? I walked her to the train, and we kinda hugged, but she could tell I wasn't very happy.

    I've been thinking of just not talking to her anymore. I'm not going to let a girl play me.

    Guys I need someone to analyze the situation, and give me some advice. PLEASE.

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    you are getting played she told you shes kissing another guy , she sees you right before heading to his house for a sleepover dude you're her male girlfriend...she'll tell you everything but wont give you any or this is a sh1t test maybe this guy doesnt even exist either way your pretty much diving into the friendzone but she's hanging on to you because you stimulate her mentally with conversation.
    "Give her the gift of missing you" david d

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    Quote Originally Posted by viruscast View Post
    you are getting played she told you shes kissing another guy , she sees you right before heading to his house for a sleepover dude you're her male girlfriend...she'll tell you everything but wont give you any or this is a sh1t test maybe this guy doesnt even exist either way your pretty much diving into the friendzone but she's hanging on to you because you stimulate her mentally with conversation.
    Holy sh1t..you might be right.

    The thing is she kinda seems into me as well. We will hold hands, and she will grab onto my arm. We have good conversation, and I grab her really close, and tight and she has no objections.

    Tonight I told her we have chemistry, and she said "no" and then said something like "but that might change". Not sure what to make of it.

    I don't know man.. Maybe you are right.

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    That's real , but ; You should've quit from the very beginning . ( As soon as she denied the kiss . )

    You burnt your bridges a long time ago .

    Time to move on dude . The hunt will continue &you will find better game elsewhere .



    &&dont ever let yourself get stuck in that friend zone .

    Good luck hunting
    Rainbow <3

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    Is she sleeping with another guy and did she tell you to give you
    a bit of your own medicine after you bragged about all the women
    you get. I would advise you not to get too emotionally hung up on
    this one. If she told you it was a girl at first and then told you it
    was a guy but claimed they only kissed a little...hmm

    Stop making yourself so available to her. When you do hang out let
    her know you need to be somewhere later. Be a bit smoother about
    it as last time she called your bluff when you mentioned all the other
    women you were seeing. Come up with something
    that normally would not come first over hanging out with her.
    Do not pretend to be some super pimp because she will call
    your bluff again based on the way you act.

    When you do hang around her do not start getting all touch crazy
    with her. Get close and up in her personal space but do not do
    anything else. Do not stay there, and be sure to move away at times.
    If she goes to hold your hand be the first to let
    her hand go. Just as you are wondering if you are losing her,
    she may start wondering if she is losing her hold on you. Should
    this concern her then you will notice her slowly making more
    of an effort to win you back. If not then decide whether you
    want to keep her as a friend or not.

    Personally though I would not waste too much time on it if you
    do not want her as a friend.

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Shakeshi View Post
    Is she sleeping with another guy and did she tell you to give you
    a bit of your own medicine after you bragged about all the women
    you get. I would advise you not to get too emotionally hung up on
    this one. If she told you it was a girl at first and then told you it
    was a guy but claimed they only kissed a little...hmm

    Stop making yourself so available to her. When you do hang out let
    her know you need to be somewhere later. Be a bit smoother about
    it as last time she called your bluff when you mentioned all the other
    women you were seeing. Come up with something
    that normally would not come first over hanging out with her.
    Do not pretend to be some super pimp because she will call
    your bluff again based on the way you act.

    When you do hang around her do not start getting all touch crazy
    with her. Get close and up in her personal space but do not do
    anything else. Do not stay there, and be sure to move away at times.
    If she goes to hold your hand be the first to let
    her hand go. Just as you are wondering if you are losing her,
    she may start wondering if she is losing her hold on you. Should
    this concern her then you will notice her slowly making more
    of an effort to win you back. If not then decide whether you
    want to keep her as a friend or not.

    Personally though I would not waste too much time on it if you
    do not want her as a friend.

    Yeah, she said it was a girl, and then laughed nervously. I could tell something wasn't right.

    So I probed until she told me it was a guy friend. She had stayed with him for a few days during the Storm/power outtages.

    She said they only "kissed a little", and didn't have sex. She said she wasn't a "sexual person"... Whatever the fark that means..


    So after I probed more she confessed she had to leave at 9pm because she was going to his house, and was going to sleepover.

    When we got the Subway station she wanted me to wish her luck, and of course I did not! and she called me out on it lol ... WTF is wrong with her.

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    I think that possibly the nervous laugh was no accident and that
    she did it so you would probe her on it further. Clearly she
    knows that you like her and then she asked you to wish her luck.
    To do something like that she would either have to be a complete
    bumblingly insensitive clod or just plain trying to rub it in. My guess
    is she was trying to rub it in after you boasted about all the
    women you go through. While it could mean that she likes you
    and felt hurt when you talked about other women, I would not
    bet much on it. She could also just like causing drama and
    jealousy as some low self esteem people do to feed their egos.
    It could even be a bit of both.

    I wish I could tell you which it was but if I were dealing with
    this I would just stop contacting her for now. See if she even
    bothers to get in touch again.

    One more thing is that if she is already acting like this then
    do you really want to have a serious relationship with her.
    Start talking to other women.

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    People, the lesson to be learnt here: that's how you go from Pua back to afc. She shit tested you and she doing what girls do, she created a triangle. Added a third party because she knows your attracted to her. Brush it off, stop asking her jealousy questions, and continue gaming her. Instead of just hanging out. Ask her to dinner. Then after take her for a walk and k-close if she doesn't come in, you go the full way, she's not pulling away is she? She just not responding. Which means she's letting you get that close. Just do it. Don't let something so pathetic confuse you.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    People, the lesson to be learnt here: that's how you go from Pua back to afc. She sh1t tested you and she doing what girls do, she created a triangle. Added a third party because she knows your attracted to her. Brush it off, stop asking her jealousy questions, and continue gaming her. Instead of just hanging out. Ask her to dinner. Then after take her for a walk and k-close if she doesn't come in, you go the full way, she's not pulling away is she? She just not responding. Which means she's letting you get that close. Just do it. Don't let something so pathetic confuse you.
    Yeah man, you are right. I turned into an AFC with her. Gave her too much of me.

    Attraction is about push and pull. She has to invest otherwise you end up gutted.

    I told her a few times I wanted a stable relationship. A girlfriend. I guess that was a stupid move. She had the power.


    EDIT:

    The only correct move here is to freeze her out. That's what i'll be doing. If she contacts me to hangout should I comply??

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    Default Re: Very CONFUSED about the situation..Am I Being Played ?

    Should you comply, real question is do you want to hang out? Me if a girl was doing this to me, I'd do it back twice as sleek and twice as hard, if she said to me " want to hang out" I'd say " I'm kind of seeing some one" then send another one later saying " but it should be alright, I'll see you at this (place) at this (time)." That's 1. Creating a triangle, 2. Playing her at her own game, 3. Reclaiming your alpha male. If she says " she can't make it" say " too bad, I'll see you sometime in the near future" giving her an indefinite answer of when she going to see you will make her confused, mix that with the triangle and you have emotions. Let the seed grow for abit. You should be able to make her your official girl friend. Report back brother
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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