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    Default Doesnt want a relationship, due to school

    Hey everybody, i have this problem with this girl. I recently told her i like her and stuff, and i want to be more than friends. She said she liked me too, but was to busy with school to have a relationship.

    Is there anyway to convince her to at lest try it out ? Its almost holidays so i suggested we just try it for the holidays, and she said she didnt want a short term relationship.

    Anyone have any ideas ?

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    Default Re: Doesnt want a relationship, due to school

    Quit trying to "convince" her and start seducing her. You cannot
    beg, whine, bully, reason or otherwise force her to want to be
    with you. Get her to the point where her emotions for you
    override everything else. The more you verbally try to push on
    her the more it will probably drive her away.

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    Default Re: Doesnt want a relationship, due to school

    Yeah i got that, but i dont know how to seduce her ?

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    Default Re: Doesnt want a relationship, due to school

    Two ways to help seduce her are by creating positive emotions
    for her when you around and also by creating sexual tension.

    You can create positive emotions by getting her to
    laugh and play like she did when she was young girl.
    Think of how much fun you have when you are not feeling self
    conscious about having to behave like an adult. Make her feel
    the same way. Have adventures, play on the swings at the
    park etc.

    Creating sexual tension has less to do with what you say
    than how you say it. Those
 uncomfortable pauses in your
    conversation where you might 
stare into her eyes just slightly
    longer than you usual. She might
 say "what are you looking at",
    in which case your response need
 only be a knowing smile. Moving

    your face close to her face for moments while you are talking to
 her.
    When you do this you may even sense that she wants to kiss.
 Also
    deeper vocal tonality along with slowing down the pace of 
your speech
    at just the right moments. This is some of what is 
meant by creating
    sexual tension. You will need to utilize your vocal tonality, speech
    pacing, body language, eye 
contact, and physical proximity to set
    the mood. I would avoid anything too outright or be too obvious
    as she has already turned you down so you will need to be more
    stealth about it.

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    Default Re: Doesnt want a relationship, due to school

    Okay, so i just hang out with the girl. Make sure she has a good time, more so than with other guys. Then when i talk to her or engage in a convorsation, just try be slower about things.

    Also should i maybe act like i've got tons more options ? Or would that just put her off ?

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    Default Re: Doesnt want a relationship, due to school

    Have a different kind of carefree simple fun that reminds
    her of childhood. There are all kinds of fun she can have
    but few men will usually be able to bring back such fond
    emotions from a simpler time in her life because most men
    are thinking too hard about always appearing clever and cool.

    Slow down your vocal pacing only at key moments
    and not that often otherwise she will think you are on
    something or having some kind of mental problems.

    I would stay away from trying to convince her about all the
    other options you have but at the same time you do not
    always have to available to her. If you are just friendly with
    random strangers while you are with her that will
    let her know that you have no problems meeting other
    people. Women have imaginations so you do not have to
    be too obvious and beat her over the head with it.
    When you try too hard they either think you are full
    of it or that you are out sleeping with a million women.

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    Default Re: Doesnt want a relationship, due to school

    Thanks man, ill try it out and if it works ill get back to you. If not well, ill ask again


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