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    Default Need help with new girl!

    Hello,

    So Ive hung out with this girl twice and its really hard for me to gauge her interests. Im usually pretty good at these things but it seems as though I might've lost my touch. Heres the story....

    So the first time we hung out, we were drinking, and she was real flirty and touchy feely. When we got out to my place, shes like "Im real attractive to you" yada yada.

    I ask her to come up and she says no and bounces. We text a couple of times, but I couldnt tell if she was not interested or just boring. So I kind of didnt ask her out and pursued other girls. So finally she texts me and is all like are we going to hang out again... So we do.

    We hung out last night, hit it off pretty well again. But I might've drank to much, but at the end of the night shes like you want to come back to my place to smoke, I say sure. I get there and shes starts to pull away. WTF?...

    What do you guys think my next move should be? Should I ask her out, and do something that doesnt involve drinking to gauge her interest one more time...

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    Default Re: Need help with new girl!

    All according to what you two were smoking it could have changed
    her mood. Also you need to hold back a little at times so the
    interest is at least split evenly otherwise she might start to pull
    away because you are doing too much.

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    Default Re: Need help with new girl!

    Yeah Iv known girls who get really turned off by smoking weed which I'm presuming is what you were smoking. Maybe get her round yours for dinner and 'movies' should gauge her interest pretty well

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Need help with new girl!

    Ok you need to DHV more...

    She is calling the shots...

    When ou show interest she is disinterested...
    when you stopped texting her she text you and asked you to hang out...


    She then had equal power to you... when she asked you to come up she then had more power over you...


    So while inside knowing she had you she didnt want you anymore...

    Cat String theory

    It all depended on how you behaved round hers...


    were you chilled relaxed layed back? or where you flirty and leaning into her trying to win her over...

    i made up a techinique called Charging people will probably start to get annoyed with me soon and tell me it already exists or to stop spamming my technique ... but the only reason i am is because i truly think it will help whoever i offer it too

    So when you were outside and she offered you a smoke... i would have said.

    (now remember women like men who take the lead)

    Ok but...

    the Ok but... shows her that you will comply with her wishes but only if she does something for you... Its similar to the October Man

    in order to have control in a relationship you must have dominance unless you are your partner are on equal ranks...

    so the Ok but... will allow you to offer your terms so no one is the leader you have both requested something...


    PUA: Ok but... i'll have to charge you...

    Her: Charge me? charge me what?...

    PUA: It'll cost you one...

    here are a few example prices i have...

    1. Your phone number
    2. A hug
    3. A peck on the cheek
    4. A kiss.
    5. A drink or food ect...

    In you case you could have said

    PUA: it'll cost you one Hug/Peck...

    depending on how much she's into you will determining if she plays along or not...

    if she does then its a major IOI

    now your upstairs and you have equal ranks its time to take the lead...

    Whilst smoking dont sit or stand too close to her...lean back and relax...

    then you can play some games with her

    any old game you would play at school or when you were a kid like eye Spy...

    a favourite of mine is the
    5 Question Game

    read my post on that thread for more tips on using it...


    Im going to be brief now because this post is long...

    Kino esculate

    move her around the room to create false time constraints and maybe say...

    Don;t be rude....

    Now this is a great phrase to use... people want approval so if you say something negative about them that they don't feel is true they will try and prove you otherwise

    Don;t be rude... arent you gonna give me the tour....


    hopfully she will comply and now you have the lead... you;ve given her a command...

    throught the games process you were slowly taking the lead by initaiating the games and setting each game rule...

    its important to set the Game rules and make sure if she obeys them she is rewarded and if she fails is punished...


    but now with the Don't be rude... arent you going to give me the tour....

    you have taken the lead...

    i'll leave the rest up to you... you have to be able to get to this point before i can carry on...

    You may think well what if i get to this point and i dunno what to do next.?

    its ok if youve made it to her house and bedroom... it'll create comfort and be much easier to enter that environment (her room) again

    hope this helps sorry its sooo long


    Chappy ^_^

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    Default Re: Need help with new girl!

    She says she's attracted to you, she initiates a second meet up, she asks you back to her place.

    Do you see what I see,? She's attracted to you, but now your heading friend zone. K-close allready.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Need help with new girl!

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    She says she's attracted to you, she initiates a second meet up, she asks you back to her place.

    Do you see what I see,? She's attracted to you, but now your heading friend zone. K-close allready.
    HERE HERE

    To cut a long story short

    It's time for you to show your intent while the window of attraction is still open brother

    Chappy ^_^


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