Hey everyone, I got a question on how to close with girls at college in certain situations.
1. There are some girls down the hall to me where I might go out with them once in a while to a party and then walk back to the dorms with them. Last night I just went with this one girl and we met up with some of my friends and then me and her walked back by ourselves. Now i wanted to ask her to come back to my room but I didnt know if I should be strait forward and just ask "want to come back and hang out in my room?" Or ask "do you want to go back and watch a movie in my room?" But either way I was thinking she knows what I want so I just didnt ask...
I remember some advice that Bandit gave me is that you dont want the girl to think that you are going to hook up so you ask her to come over and just watch a movie, do homework or whatever.
2. If I am at a party talking to a girl and I want to leave do I ask the same thing like "i am about to head out, wanna come back to my room?"
Is that what girls want is for you to just be straight up about it? Cause if I ask that I know that what is gonna run through their head is "all he wants is to bang..."