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    Default Closing Girls At College?

    Hey everyone, I got a question on how to close with girls at college in certain situations.

    1. There are some girls down the hall to me where I might go out with them once in a while to a party and then walk back to the dorms with them. Last night I just went with this one girl and we met up with some of my friends and then me and her walked back by ourselves. Now i wanted to ask her to come back to my room but I didnt know if I should be strait forward and just ask "want to come back and hang out in my room?" Or ask "do you want to go back and watch a movie in my room?" But either way I was thinking she knows what I want so I just didnt ask...

    I remember some advice that Bandit gave me is that you dont want the girl to think that you are going to hook up so you ask her to come over and just watch a movie, do homework or whatever.

    2. If I am at a party talking to a girl and I want to leave do I ask the same thing like "i am about to head out, wanna come back to my room?"

    Is that what girls want is for you to just be straight up about it? Cause if I ask that I know that what is gonna run through their head is "all he wants is to bang..."

    Advice? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Closing Girls At College?

    you answered your own question.

    Always give them plausible deniability.

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    Default Re: Closing Girls At College?

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    you answered your own question.

    Always give them plausible deniability.
    Yeah, but I still feel they will know what I am thinking by "watching a movie"


    Also! I forgot to ask one more question, if we are on my bed watching a movie, when is the moment I go in to make a move to kiss her!? How do I know when to do it? So i just dont randomly go in and kiss her...

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    Yeah, but I still feel they will know what I am thinking by "watching a movie"


    Also! I forgot to ask one more question, if we are on my bed watching a movie, when is the moment I go in to make a move to kiss her!? How do I know when to do it? So i just dont randomly go in and kiss her...

    Obviously it's in the back of her mind, but she wants to fark as much as you do, but she needs an excuse.

    Make it a movie you both have already seen, and move in a bit slowly and then start kinoing. Calibrate the situation, and if she responds well go for a bit of kissing. Try to go for her neck, and earlobes. Things will get hot and heavy if done right..

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    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Obviously it's in the back of her mind, but she wants to fark as much as you do, but she needs an excuse.

    Make it a movie you both have already seen, and move in a bit slowly and then start kinoing. Calibrate the situation, and if she responds well go for a bit of kissing. Try to go for her neck, and earlobes. Things will get hot and heavy if done right..
    In what way do I start kinoing her? If were siting like a couple inches apart wouldn't it be weird if I just start toucher her?

    Like how would you start touching her? Specifically, start where and how?

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    Default Re: Closing Girls At College?

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...html#post68479
    This is what I use in that sorta situation, give it a go

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Closing Girls At College?

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...html#post68479
    This is what I use in that sorta situation, give it a go

    Linking x
    Pretty good, never thought about that.

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    Default Re: Closing Girls At College?

    Generally, girls in college are DTF. <That is rule #1 of college game.

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    Hey everyone, I got a question on how to close with girls at college in certain situations.

    1. There are some girls down the hall to me where I might go out with them once in a while to a party and then walk back to the dorms with them. Last night I just went with this one girl and we met up with some of my friends and then me and her walked back by ourselves. Now i wanted to ask her to come back to my room but I didnt know if I should be strait forward and just ask "want to come back and hang out in my room?" Or ask "do you want to go back and watch a movie in my room?" But either way I was thinking she knows what I want so I just didnt ask...

    Ifa girl goes to "watch a movie" or "study" in your dorm AND you're getting IOI's, then she's at least considering sleeping with you.

    I remember some advice that Bandit gave me is that you dont want the girl to think that you are going to hook up so you ask her to come over and just watch a movie, do homework or whatever.

    Yep ^ need that deniability.

    2. If I am at a party talking to a girl and I want to leave do I ask the same thing like "i am about to head out, wanna come back to my room?"

    That's the idea, but don't say that ^ if you say you're heading out then the implication is some time constraint, and if you invite her back the implication is you don't have any time constraint. I'd suggest hanging out long enough to build attraction and then either getting a ride back to the dorm with her, or, once attraction is high be like "hey I'm about to head home, gotta get up early, wanna walk with me?" then when you get to the dorm be like "oh btw, remember that thing I mentioned I should show you as we were walking? Come in for a sec and I'll show you, but only for a sec" Then get distracted talking, making drinks, watching a movie, running kino, making out... see what I did there?

    Is that what girls want is for you to just be straight up about it? Cause if I ask that I know that what is gonna run through their head is "all he wants is to bang..."

    Be straight like as in get her back to your room and it's pretty much ON, but don't be like "hey, let's fark" or "I'm gonna wreck it!"
    ...I just saw Wreck-it-Ralph..

    Advice? Thanks.
    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    Yeah, but I still feel they will know what I am thinking by "watching a movie"

    They will.

    Also! I forgot to ask one more question, if we are on my bed watching a movie, when is the moment I go in to make a move to kiss her!? How do I know when to do it? So i just dont randomly go in and kiss her...
    Do a comliance test, if she passes run a kiss gambit
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...s-list-em.html

    But really the thing is DON'T WAIT FOR A PERFECT MOMENT - YOU HAVE TO MAKE ONE HAPPEN YOURSELF. Say something smooth, get her thinking sexually, be doing kino the whole time and that will raise the sexual tension.

    Funny story; last night I did dinner and a movie with this girl, we get back to the dorm and are kinda lingering in the lobby so I'm like "I'm gonna put my leftovers away, come one" she's like "okay" (plausable deniability) so we put on a movie and I'm imaging just brushing her hair back and kissing her, but I want to see how long I can stretch the tension. Finally she leans in and stares directly at me with a look like "get the message dude, kiss me"
    And tonight I got this other chick over (right next to me now ) and we're just gonna study for a while (I'm gonna run some simple NLP - nothing fancy) to get her thinking about sex, then go with "I think we're slipping into the friendzone recently.... we gotta fix that" - hopefully that'll be FR worthy tomorrow

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Obviously it's in the back of her mind, but she wants to fark as much as you do, but she needs an excuse.

    Exactly!

    Make it a movie you both have already seen, and move in a bit slowly and then start kinoing. Calibrate the situation, and if she responds well go for a bit of kissing. Try to go for her neck, and earlobes. Things will get hot and heavy if done right..
    Try to make it a movie with a subtle sensual or sexual element.
    -Watchmen
    -V for Vendetta
    -Matrix
    -[any cartoon show with sex humor]
    -Team America
    -Atonement
    etc

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    In what way do I start kinoing her? If were siting like a couple inches apart wouldn't it be weird if I just start toucher her?

    Like how would you start touching her? Specifically, start where and how?
    Start by invading her space for some reason "hey check out this picture on my phone - or this text my buddy sent - or this glitchey thing my phone does - or hey I like that ring *pick up her hand and examine it*


    A few less overt moves
    -examine her jewlery
    -touch her should while talking
    -examine her nails
    -remove her shoes


    Overt moves (these are things to do like just before you kiss her)
    -brush her hair behind her ear
    -take off her glasses and examine them
    -interlink your fingers with hers
    -make a "C-shape" by brushing from her forehead to her chin
    -*triangle gaze, then pull her in for a kiss
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Closing Girls At College?

    thanks for the reply Autismus, can you clear out your pm's so i can send you one? Thanks

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    Default Re: Closing Girls At College?

    Oopse!...

    PMS cleaned out and clensed JohnnyBob!
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR


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