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    Swag is offline PUA in Training
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    Default I Must Get This TARGET!!!

    Met on POF in Aug.
    -told me she just wanted to be friends…next date I used some PU and made out with her and fingered her

    -I told her I had feelings for her 2 times over a span of like 3 months and she rejected me both times so I froze her out

    -a few days later she kept calling me and I kept telling her I was busy

    -eventually she called me and we talked for a few hours and she told me that she only said she wanted to be friends because she wanted to slow things down in general because she was afraid to mess anything up

    -then she would call me a lot and we would send personal family pictures to each other and she would talk a lot about her family and tell me personal things about her, et… and she told me that I was the only guy she was dating or even talking to

    -we were getting really close, she came over one time at midnight and we made out and hung around in my bed till 3am…she said how she was upset that all we did was make-out and that a guy never rejected her before (I said I wanted to take it slow)…I kind of started ignoring her a bit to slow things down b/c it was getting fast for me (she was always talking about how she wants to get married in 3 years…then she changed that to 2 years) FYI I am 25 and she is 27

    -then her text message replies to me became 1 word answers with me always initiating…so I didn’t text her back waiting for her to initiate…I waited for like 2 weeks and messaged her

    -during these two weeks, she put up some bs picture message about how “A girl who is easy to get is not worth it and if a girl is hard to get she is worth is and if you don’t try hard you aren’t worthy” on her facebook

    -once I message her, we started talking again but she kept blowing my plans with her off and then she told me that she was busy with work and that she was talking to other people and that she just started to do so recently (I think she is saying it because I didn’t talk to her for 2 weeks)

    -she is also just giving me 1 word responses when we text now too


    What the bombaclot should I do here. She sh1t-tests me more than any other girl I have ever come across in my life and I think I’m starting to have real feelings for this one. I have an urge to fight for her but I don’t want to seem needy or desperate. I mean I haven’t really taken her on a proper date and I really want to. I think she kind of wants me to show that I care for her. P.S. this girl is a lawyer and reads all that think like a lady act like man, all that stuff. I want a serious relationship out of her and FYI, I am brown. All couples in their late 20s talk about marriage because that’s what we want so it’s not weird lol.

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    Default Re: I Must Get This TARGET!!!

    Dear god that was painful to read. All you two are doing is going back and forth when it's obvious that both of you want each other. You're just playing games at this point. If you're serious about this girl, stop dicking around and get serious.

    It sounds like you want a relationship here. I can't make that call, that's something you have to decide, but from what I've heard you want that. Either way, figure out what you want, find some way to talk to her, preferably in person but phone works too if you have to (no text) and tell her straight up what you want. Indirect is not going to get you any further, it's time to be upfront. Be confident, be bold, and don't apologize. Know what you want and go for it. That's how men handle things.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I Must Get This TARGET!!!

    BANDIT

    That’s exactly what I wanted to hear. I definitely want a relationship from her, probably more. It’s going to be tough since, stupid me I deleted her phone number off my phone. I just sent her a message on Facebook that’s slightly more heatfelt then our normal convos. I want to chase her for a bit (calling, texting) and then be bold and tell her how I feel. I feel like she wants to go on a few dates with me at nice places (not necessarily expensive) so she can help justify to her friends, family and herself why we are together. I’ve been treating her pretty crappy and never took her out on a real date lol.

    I was just afraid to chase her because of all the success I’ve had with past women with all the PUA principles of playing hard to get. This is the first girl who I like who won’t stand for my BS. In any event, thanks for the advice and I’ll let you know how it goes!


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