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    Default Feel like I'm being played!

    Well as the title suggests, I feel asif I am being played by this girl! Taken for a ride so to speak. We've knew each other since school and had massive sexual tension but other relationships meant nothing ever happened. Anyway we are both single now and I asked her out on a date. We went on a first date went well and second went well. She has the attitude that men should chase as she even said "you can text me " when I laughed and went why. She suggested that "I was the man. I'm suppose to chase text her and organise things" I agree on the organising of things but nout else.

    Anyway I was out last night and got fairly drunk her freinds told me they had lost her and I seen a social network status about being left. So I text telling her what time mine and my freinds taxi was booked for and she was more than welcome. I text her today asking if she got home ok as she never turned up but still text me. We exchanged Afew funny texts she told me she didn't enjoy her night and when I asked why she stopped replying.

    I feel asthough I'm beginingg to chase and she's taking me for a big ride. What would you guys suggest as I feel like calling her out on this bullshit but that's not the best thing to do.

    Any advice would be great.

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    Well I decided to stop being played and simply text her "hey sorry somethings came up so can't go out tomorrow night" 20minutes later I see her in the gym and she approaches me "hey I got your text "

    Me: yep sorry about that
    Her:what you doing tomorrow night like
    Me : got some stuff I need to sort out, but if you let me know when you free we can see if we can sort summit out.
    Her. Ok ill text you.
    Me ok ( chuckled )
    Her: it's only half 2 not sure what I'm gona do for the rest of the day.

    It was asif she was desprate for me to ask her to do summit but I didn't. And just had some general banter. I'm doing movember at the minute if your unsure of what it us your grow a tash for a whole month of November for prostate cancer.
    Her: I get sick of my freinds they all think there it.
    Me: Yous all do and I laughed to show I was joking
    Her: tash!

    Straight on the insult I just laughed she said bye ana I got back on with my exercises.

    Anything to critique for future?

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    Looks like you done pretty well o me mate, just make sure you don't go to far with the letting her chase you thing, don't make excuses every time or she will think your not interested

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    Thanks! I felt asif I was doing all the chasing so thought I'd flake on her. And I take it by her asking what I'm doing Is an IOI. Ill give her till Thursday evening to have contacted me then I might drop her a message asking if she wants to do something

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    Yeah that is an IOI, don't ask what she's doing just tell her what you two are going to do, by her own logic 'your the guy, you should make the decision' so make the decision and tell her where to meet ya

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    "We're going to see silent hill tomorrow night at 8:15, ill pick you up at 7:30 "

    Can you think of any better?

    How things change over Afew months. You use to give me loads of advice about getting my ex back! Makes me cringe now! Ha

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    It looks good to me, get rid of the wink, a if you have to but the wink just don't seem right lol :L aha dw I only just got out of a 2 week foray back into a relationship with my ex.......we all make mistakes :L

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    Yes we all l do! Hopefully we learn from them!

    I wonder how she willl respond to that text. Have to wait and see though. Give her two days cooling off to let it stew as to why I rejected her.

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    She'll either say yes or no, and I have a rule for the no situation, if she has a valid excuse then I will try one more time when I know she's free and if it's still a no then move on

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Feel like I'm being played!

    I like that mentality at the end of the day what's the worst that could happen "no" lol. Give it a whirl in Afew days! I will keep you updated.


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